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The Nothing Is Wasted Podcast

Episode 240 - Making Your Way through the Seasons of Loss with Laura Hao

The Nothing Is Wasted Podcast

Davey Blackburn and Aubrey Sampson

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.91.1K Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2022

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

What do you do when you were living the life you always dreamed of and find it taken away in a matter of moments? How do you learn to trust God after a tragic loss? How can you forgive when a grave injustice is done against you and your family? Laura Hao had to answer these questions and so many more when she lost her husband in a senseless murder in 2018. Laura had always dreamed of becoming a missionary since she was a little girl. She realized that dream and moved to Asia as a young woman. There, she met her husband, had her four children and began working as missionaries in the place the Holy Spirit had planted a seed of a dream in her heart so many years ago. Together, they experienced blessing and favor as they served the Lord and sought to build the Church in a closed part of the world. But that all changed just two days after returning to the United States for a time of refreshment and visiting loved ones. While packing her daughter's bag for camp the next day, gun shots echoed just outside the door. She opened it to find a traumatic scene, her husband was lying lifeless on the ground after being shot in a random act of violence. Laura experienced the depths of the darkness that grief can bring. Feeling buried like a seed, she felt as though she was frantically grappling her way out of the dark. But through it, she also experienced the illuminating light of truths that can only be found in the recesses of pain. In this raw conversation, Davey and Laura talk through a shared experience of learning to live in the darkness of a painful loss, how to trust the Lord in the seasons for grief, and how justice, mercy and forgiveness all coexist. The truths Laura and Davey share are ones that will help you as you navigate the most difficult parts of your story with honesty and hope, whatever it may be. Do you have questions in your pain to purpose journey? Join Davey and one of our Certified Coaches as they deep dive into what you want to know in monthly, free Live Coaching. Register at: www.nothingiswasted.com/livecoaching Sign up for the FREE 5 Steps to Taking Back Your Story Webinar: www.nothingiswasted.com/starthere Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey friends, I know that so many of you who are listening to this are currently carrying a heavy

0:05.2

weight of pain and loss. I mean, after all, that's probably what drew you to our podcast.

0:10.3

And here's what I know. I know when we start to process what's going on in our lives,

0:13.5

we can often find ourselves paralyzed by the pain and not really knowing where to go from here.

0:18.8

We even begin to hear or tell ourselves lies like, this is the end of your story. This will

0:25.1

always define you. And trust me, I've been there, but I've also, as I've come through,

0:30.6

it realized that those are just that. They're lies. This doesn't have to define you. This isn't the

0:35.6

end of your story. With the help of others, I was able to navigate my way out of that valley.

0:40.6

And listen, nothing has wasted ministries. We exist to help you navigate your pain and even find

0:46.1

purpose in that pain. So if you're new to our community and you're wondering where to start,

0:50.9

or if you've been with us for some time and you're just looking to take a next step,

0:54.7

I want to invite you to a free webinar that I'm hosting just for you. It's called five steps to

1:00.3

taking back your story no matter what you've gone through. In this webinar, I'm going to share

1:05.0

with you a little bit of my own journey of how God met me and guided me after losing my wife,

1:10.0

Amanda. And I'm going to teach you five critical steps that you'll have to take in order to rewrite

1:15.8

your story. The webinar is an hour and a half long, but I promise you, it will be well worth your

1:21.5

time because in this webinar, you're going to learn how to regain a sense of agency and begin

1:26.1

thriving, not just surviving, but thriving in the midst of trying circumstances. I'm going to teach

1:31.4

you why having more questions than answers is an essential part of moving forward. I'm also going

1:37.3

to teach you how to get rid of the overwhelming negative emotions that tend to bog you down and get

1:42.0

you stuck. We're going to talk about the one keystone decision that is proven to get you out of

1:47.4

your pain. I'm going to teach you how to listen to the right voices when everyone seems to have

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