Katie, I am so thankful for you.

It's not mutual, but I really appreciate you saying that.

I didn't think it would be, but how are you doing?

I'm not allowed to ask how you're going, do we?

No, you don't get it.

It's not, you're allowed to ask me how I'm doing.

What I don't like is when you ask me and then I ask you or vice versa, I don't want an extended back and forth like we're doing right now.

I have an idea to make this autistic enough for you to be comfortable with. Okay. I will log whenever I start, I just go current emotional status query.

I do. So we're recording this a couple days after Thanksgiving.

I did two Thanksgiving this year, my family and Janice family.

And my main concern about Thanksgiving or any, any gathering really with any human being.

And I stress about this for days in advance is who is the hug?

Is who am I going to hug?

Who am I going to shake hands with what like

is there going to be is it a side hug is it the front to front hug it causes me so much stressed

you're just a hugger you're just comfortable with hugs aren't you actually when I was on the

market multiple women criticized me on first dates for not hugging them, for giving them handshakes.

Because I was like, I don't know if a strange woman wants this like large, sweaty man to hug her.

Because what if I just never let go?

You were trying to do the right thing.

Yeah.

I don't mind.

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