Episode 214: What if Momma Ain’t Happy? Why It’s Okay to Sweat the Small Stuff

Bare Marriage

Sheila Gregoire

Marriage, Social Sciences, Science, Relationships, Sex, Christianity, Wife, Religion & Spirituality, Mother, Society & Culture, Advice, Family

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🗓️ 16 November 2023

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Links to things mentioned:

Our survey link! Couples are invited to take our marriage survey (you take it individually and it’s confidential):
https://baremarriage.com/grim/

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The article where you can find the Elisabeth Elliot quote on the essence of femininity: https://www.crossway.org/articles/the-essence-of-femininity/

Holly Furtick’s reel on being grumpy: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CtnHKVJOOOI/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Holly Furtick’s reel on not fussing and just praying:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cm1oSdNBGB3/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

The study on why sweating the small stuff is important:

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18361676/

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John Gottman’s book The 7 Principles for Making Marriage Work:

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Bear Marriage Podcast, I'm Sheila Ray Gregoer from Bear Marriage.
0:09.6	Where we like to talk about
0:13.8	healthy evidence-based biblical advice for your sex life and your marriage and I am
0:17.4	joined today by my daughter Rebecca Lindenbach. Hello hello. My husband's gonna
0:21.1	peek in a little bit later and we're going to talk to
0:23.7	and we're going to talk about what it means to not sweat the small stuff and
0:28.2	how and the whole the whole idea that if mama ain't happy no one's happy.
0:32.1	Yeah well we've all heard that.
0:33.6	And let's talk about that, but before we do that,
0:36.2	evidence-based.
0:37.3	We are the evidence-based blog.
0:38.8	And we are in the middle of a new survey.
0:41.8	It is our matched pair survey, gender roles in marriage. We have ethics
0:45.2	approval from Queen's University with my husband Dr. Keith Gregwires, the primary researcher,
0:49.8	and there is a link to that study where you can take it.
0:53.6	We're looking for married couples where at least one of them
0:56.7	is a Christian and it's going to be awesome.
0:59.3	It's for our new marriage book and we're so excited to have people join us and help us and you all the ones who make this possible
1:06.1	because without you taking the survey we couldn't have done what we've done so far and so the
1:10.3	link is in the podcast notes we're so excited to have this to share with you.
1:14.0	Please pass it around and it is an anonymous survey so even your spouse you know
1:20.4	won't have access to your responses so do check that out and and yeah we're excited to see
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