EPISODE 213: What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 3 (Doggy Style, Smut + Morning BJs & More!)

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 June 2025

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Have you ever wanted a peek inside a man’s brain? 🧠 We’re back with Part 3 of one of our most talked-about episode series — answering all the burning, bizarre, and brutally honest questions you’ve always wanted to ask men. This week, we’re diving into what men really think about everything from doggy style to smutty books to whether they actually want to be woken up with a BJ. 🍆 😛 🎙️ Here’s what we’re getting into: What are men actually looking at during doggy style? What do they think when they see a woman who’s prettier than their partner? Is it true they can literally… think about nothing? How do they feel about things like… Women aging, messy buns, leg hair, and more How do they stay so chill about daily life stuff (kid schedules, groceries, appointments)? What’s their take on sex toys and spicy books in the bedroom? What really keeps them engaged in a relationship? This one is honest, funny, and surprisingly vulnerable. And of course, Xander’s not holding back. 🔗 Links & Resources: 🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 1 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode56 🎧 What Do Men REALLY Think About…? Part 2 ➡️ https://vmtherapy.com/episode69 ❤️ Ready to go deeper? Your questions deserve more than just a quick answer. Inside our monthly membership Deeper, we help you actually take the next step — with expert-designed tools, guided content, live sessions with us, and unlimited access to Vanessa AI (your 24/7 virtual sex and relationship coach). 🎉 Podcast listeners get 25% off your first month! Use the code PILLOW at checkout right here 👉🏻 https://vmtherapy.com/deeper 🎧 Stay connected: 📸 Follow us on Instagram ➡️ **https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander** 💌 Get our weekly email — with behind-the-scenes stories, expert tips, and so many sex puns. Sign up here 👉🏻 vmtherapy.com/subscribe 🎧 Never miss an episode! Subscribe to Pillow Talks wherever you listen to pods! ========================== THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS ========================== 👏Thanks Goodwipes. Goodwipes will elevate your everyday hygiene with premium wipes that deliver a superior clean that no dry toilet paper can match. 👏 Thanks ZocDoc. Download the ZocDoc app to sign-up for FREE and book a top-rated doctor. ➡︎ https://zocdoc.com/pillow 👏Thanks Cozy Earth. Get an exclusive discount for up to 40% off. ➡︎ https://cozyearth.com/pillowtalks 👏Thanks Remi. Give your teeth a break without breaking the bank with Remi and save up to 50%. ➡︎ https://shopremi.com/PILLOW) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	Okay, let's go in hot and heavy.
0:03.0	What are you looking at during doggy?
0:06.0	What keeps a man engaged in a relationship?
0:10.0	Home decor. Do they care about how the house is decorated?
0:14.0	What do you think when you see a woman who is prettier than me?
0:19.0	Okay, what do men think about right after they finish?
0:22.7	Ha!
0:23.6	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast. We're your host, Vanessa, and Zander
0:36.3	Marin. I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:39.3	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:41.3	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:46.3	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,
0:51.3	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what
0:55.7	really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more. It's the sex education you
1:01.5	wish you'd had. We are back with round three of Xander speaking for all men.
1:10.9	It's my favorite thing, favorite thing to do.
1:12.8	I feel like, you know, I'm as good as any to be the representative for all men, right?
1:17.6	That's sarcasm, by the way.
1:19.9	What do men really think about sarcasm?
1:22.1	Now, we always get questions in our community from people asking like, what do men really
1:26.2	think about this?
1:26.9	What do women really think about this?
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