And welcome to the To the To Love Honor and Vacuum Podcast, I'm Sheila.

And welcome to the To Love Honor and Vacuum podcast. I'm Sheila Ray

Gregwar from to love honor and vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to

make marriage less of a to-do list and more of a passionate adventure. And

speaking of passionate adventures,

I have my husband here with me today.

Hi, everyone.

After a lot of feedback on last week's podcast,

where our son-in-law was on the show, people were saying they wanted to hear more from the guys in the family.

That sounds great, I'm happy to be here.

Yeah, and I mean, everybody hears about you, but I don't think that they know you at all

because you don't show up on the

blog that much. So yeah, so here I'm going to put you on the spot right now.

Okay. So this week on the block I was talking about a concept called the five wise method and

wise like W h h y s not wise like W is e.

Okay. Although I guess it is wise as well but that's not the point. The point is that if you have a problem, the way that you tackle the problem is by asking why five times.

And as a pediatrician, the first thing I think of is asking why five times.

And as a pediatrician, the first thing I think of is like a four-year-old asking why 500 times.

But this is not like that.

Good.

So we don't know how to do that.

But the reason is because sometimes you think the problem is A, but as you dig down deeper, you figure out what the root of the real issue is and then you can solve it.

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