EPISODE 196: 90 Prompts to Transform Your Sex Life (We Answer Some Live!)

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 February 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

🔥 Let’s talk about sex—but let’s make it fun, flirty, and way less awkward. In this episode, we’re telling you about 90 spicy prompts designed to get you talking, laughing, and maybe even blushing with your partner. We’ll be pulling cards from our brand-spankin-new Sex Talks Card Deck and answering them live, sharing our hottest takes, and reading some intriguing responses from our Instagram community. Some of these questions will have you reminiscing, some will have you dreaming up new adventures, and others might just be the push you need to turn up the heat in your love life! In this episode, we explore: ✔️ Why talking about sex is the key to having more (and better) sex ✔️ The five essential conversations that will take your intimacy to the next level ✔️ Real, unfiltered responses from our listeners on what turns them on ✔️ Our own candid answers to some of most revealing prompts 📩 Love what you hear? Leave us a review and tell us which prompt got you hot and bothered! 🔥 💫 Ready to take your conversations to the next level? Grab your own Sex Talks Card Deck now at sextalksbook.com and start exploring with your partner! --------------------------------- 🔗 Links & Resources: --------------------------------- 💫 Reignite your love life in just 7 days? ➡︎ https://buy.vmtherapy.com/best-week-ever-only?ref=podcast-196&utm_term=podcast-196 💫 Treat Your Partner to the best foreplay they've ever had: https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/?ref=podcast-196&utm_term=podcast-196 💫 Check out our NYT best selling book Sex Talks: ➡︎ https://sextalksbook.com/?ref=podcast-196&utm_term=podcast-196 --------------------------- Connect with us! 👋 --------------------------- Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Watch Us on YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/c/VanessaMarin Our VIP Email list: ➡︎ https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe

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0:00.0	So many of us think of sex and we think of just the physical act, but it's so much more than that.
0:05.1	Like the connection that we have with each other or the disconnection that we're feeling with each other.
0:10.5	I'm putting that in quotes.
0:11.6	The desire problem very often solves itself when you actually devote time and attention to the other elements.
0:19.3	Let's go into our connection card.
0:23.5	When was the last time you felt in awe of me?
0:27.6	I really like this question.
0:28.8	Let's stroke each other's egos.
0:36.2	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:39.9	We're your host, Vanessa, and Zander Marin.
0:42.5	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:45.5	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:47.1	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:52.8	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double
0:54.9	date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories
1:01.0	of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education
1:06.8	you wish you'd had. We are super excited about today's episode
1:11.2	because we get to unveil something
1:13.6	that we have been working on
1:14.8	for a very long time behind the scenes.
1:19.4	Years and years.
1:20.2	Many years.
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