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Episode 192: “Is This Normal?” Part 4 — Low Desire Husband, Never Had A Fight, & Baby Talk

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.82.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 January 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

We’re diving into part 4 of one of our favorite series, “Is This Normal?” We’ll be exploring topics like: Is it normal for my husband to have absolutely no sex drive? Is it normal to never have fought? Is it normal for my partner to talk in a baby voice and for it to turn me off? And even more of your questions! This episode is packed with real talk, judgment-free advice, and practical tips to help you navigate these tricky (and sometimes awkward!) situations. Links & Resources: Reignite your love life in just 7 days? ➡︎ https://shop.vmtherapy.com/your-best-week-ever/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Treat Your Partner to the Best Foreplay they've ever had: https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Check out our NYT best selling book Sex Talks: ➡︎ https://sextalksbook.com/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Connect with us! 👋 Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Our VIP Email list: ➡︎ https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe Thanks Cozy Earth. Go to cozyearth.com/pillowtalks and use code PILLOWTALKS for an exclusive discount for up to 40% off. Thanks Orgain. Head to Orgain.com/PILLOW and use code PILLOW for 30% off your order.

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0:00.0

Your partner has told you that they are not open to getting engaged until you have a fight.

0:06.6

I think that you should fight over this.

0:08.0

Yeah, no, no.

0:08.8

I'm okay.

0:09.7

I'm not saying fight over this, but it's like, well, what is a fight?

0:13.4

I think the reality is you feel a certain way about this.

0:16.1

This is a disagreement that you guys have and you guys need to process this.

0:27.8

Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.

0:31.4

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:32.7

And Zander Marin.

0:34.0

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:37.0

And I'm just a regular dude. We share the

0:39.2

ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:44.3

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical

0:49.3

relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:57.1

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

1:01.2

Welcome back to another round of Is This Normal?

1:05.9

Wow, babe. You didn't start this episode with today we're talking about you know you try to start why do

1:14.0

I always start every episode you should start some episode I was actually going to start today's

1:18.8

episode let's stop let's pretend that I didn't do it so go for it let's hear your intro today's an

1:23.9

exciting day huh babe it is an exciting day There's a lot that's been going on.

1:28.1

We're getting started recording a little late today because the number of exciting things happened.

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