Episode 188: Is Your Ultimatum Going To Work?

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 26 December 2024

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

We were feeling inspired… The Ultimatum is back on Netflix, and it was wild. It left us wondering if our own audience has ever given (or been given) a relationship ultimatum, so we asked! In this episode, we’re breaking down your ultimatums and sharing our opinions and advice. If you’ve ever considered giving an ultimatum - or if you’re just curious about the ones other people have issued - this is a must-listen! Links & Resources: Reignite your love life in just 7 days? ➡︎ https://shop.vmtherapy.com/your-best-week-ever/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Treat Your Partner to the Best F0replay they've ever had: https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Check out our NYT best selling book Sex Talks: ➡︎ https://sextalksbook.com/?ref=podcast-188&utm_term=podcast-188 Connect with us! 👋 Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Our VIP Email list: ➡︎ https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe Thanks OneSkin. Get started today with 15% off using code PILLOW at oneskin.co.

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0:00.0	ultimatums set you against each other. If you don't do this, I'm going to do that.
0:05.4	When the reality is that we should be viewing relationships as though we are a team.
0:10.1	Like it's you and me against our issues, not it's you and me against each other.
0:24.0	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:26.8	We're your host, Vanessa, and Zander Marin.
0:29.8	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:31.4	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:33.8	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:37.4	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,
0:42.3	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors, and so much more.
0:50.3	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:00.2	So for today's episode, we got inspired by watching the Netflix show The Ultimatum.
1:02.7	Which is a great show, but we were a little... Define great.
1:04.3	Great as in crazy?
1:06.9	Yeah.
1:07.8	Entertaining, guilty pleasure?
1:10.0	Guilty pleasure. Entertaining. Iilty pleasure. Guilty pleasure.
1:11.3	Intertaining.
1:12.1	I mean, it's not a great idea.
1:15.3	I mean, the concept, like, okay, well, I don't know.
1:18.8	I think we have to say what the concept of the show is for people that are not sure what the ultimate is, what the hell we're talking about.
1:26.4	So basically, like, an
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