Episode 185: How To Navigate Porn In Your Relationship

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Today we’re tackling one of the trickiest and most controversial topics we get asked about - porn. Is it OK to watch porn even if you’re in a relationship? Can it become addicting? Can you forbid your partner from watching it? In this episode we cover how porn affects you personally, pros and cons to bringing porn into your relationship, and what to do if you and your partner disagree. This is a topic that every couple needs to talk about in their relationship, so use this episode to open up a conversation! Links & Resources: Join our email list! Instagram: @vanessaandxander If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had! Thanks Chewy. Take advantage of amazing holiday savings and shop your personal favorites at Chewy.com/pillows. Thanks OneSkin. Get started today with 15% off using code PILLOW at oneskin.co Thanks Unbound Merino. Head over to their website unboundmerino.com where new customers can use our code PILLOW for 15% off of their order!

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0:00.0	It's normal and healthy in a long-term relationship to still feel attraction to other people.
0:07.6	Like getting in a relationship doesn't mean that we lose the function of our eyes.
0:12.4	Like, our eyes still work.
0:14.1	We still feel attraction to other people.
0:16.0	And that doesn't say anything bad about the relationship.
0:28.7	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:30.4	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:31.6	And Zander Marin.
0:34.6	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:36.2	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:40.6	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:42.4	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical
0:47.2	relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom
0:52.9	doors and so much more. It's the sex
0:55.6	education you wish you'd had. So today's episode is about one of the most challenging, controversial,
1:05.4	and requested topics. And that is porn. But first, I have to let you know, today is a solo episode.
1:15.5	It is the very first solo episode that has ever been done in Pillow Talks history. What is this,
1:22.0	185 episodes in? So let me just give you a little quick explanation. Zander had a procedure yesterday
1:29.8	in his mouth. If you've been following us on Instagram, we're at Vanessa and Zander. You know
1:34.9	that he has been on an entire journey for the last about six months or so of expanding his
1:40.7	palate, doing all these different procedures. So yesterday he had a tongue tie release,
1:46.3	a lip tie release, and two buckle tie releases. Those are in your cheeks. The procedure
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