Have you ever thought that I was like rubbing my clit too fast?

It's fucking hot.

Like, what?

I just like, I don't know, I don't even know how to answer that question.

Like, I mean, man, I'm so sorry and so bummed that shit like that goes through your head. Hello and

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Today we are talking about one of the sexiest things you can do in the bedroom

that you are probably not doing right now which is drum roll please.

That's your drum roll?

As a former drummer I would think you would have this better.

How do you do it?

I feel like...

You're doing drumming a real dissert. You have things you can like slap right now.

That's gonna sound weird. I think that sounds way better than

k! Okay now that we've built this up so much.

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