If you're so grossed out by your own cum, you're not allowed to leave it in me.

Yeah, like that's gross. Yeah, if you're so gross out by that, why the fuck are you putting it in me?

Like boom, mic drop.

Man, guys, we gotta do do better. We got to fucking do better. I'm looking at you.

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Today's episode was inspired by one of the most intriguing

d'ams we've gotten in a long time.

Yeah, seriously. This was in one of our ask- us- anything question boxes. We do this over on

Instagram every Sunday. If you're not following us there, definitely come on over. We're at Vanessa and Zander. It's

Xander with an X. So we just you know every Sunday put up a question box of

ask us anything. We're here to give advice, answer random questions, like just

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