In male-female relationships, almost half of the time, the woman is the one who has a higher sex drive.

But because we never talk about it, all of these couples feel like something is horribly wrong with them or they're broken.

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I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience

and I'm just a regular dude.

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more. It's the sex education you wish you'd had. Today's episode is

inspired by a couple of reels that we posted on Instagram that immediately went

viral and the theme of those reels was the theme of this

episode maybe it's not low libido maybe it's fill in the blank as a sex

therapist low libido has always been one of the biggest complaints

that I've heard about from my clients and our Instagram community is no different. We put a few polls up there and we discovered that

74% of our community say that their libido is currently low. Wow. It feels low and 88% said that they have had a season of low

low libido at some point in their relationship

but it poses an interesting question. Is libido really the issue?

Well, while you think about what the answer to that question is, let me give you the review of the week.

We're going to leave you on a little cliffhanger here. that question is, let me give you the review of the week.

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