someone will kind of make a snide comment or a comment in passing about it's been a while and leave it there.

That's where like all kinds of ideas start to grow of like, you know, oh is what was actually behind this? Is are they upset?

Are they not upset?

Like what is going on?

Whereas this doesn't leave a lot of room for interpretation. Hello and

the Pillow Talks podcast.

We're your host Vanessa and Zander Marin.

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience and I'm just a regular dude. We share the ups and downs in our relationship

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What do you do when it's been a while? When you don't remember the last time you had sex?

When the idea of initiating feels even more vulnerable and awkward than it usually does,

when you're not sure if your partner

is missing it the same way you are. We have all been here before but it feels

really difficult to know what to do to get out of this funk.

So in today's episode we are telling you exactly how to get back on the horse.

Get back on that horse baby. Get back in the saddle baby get back in the saddle get back in the saddle

on the horse to be clear we're talking about having sex nothing about horse riding

over here no but first we are going to get on this review of the week. How do you

like that transition, babe? We get on it. Should have listened sooner. I follow Vanessa and Zander on

Instagram for years before listening to their podcast and I wish I had started earlier.

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