Hey guys, my name is John Kim. I'm a licensed therapist and life coach putting

self betterment into a shot class because let's face it who's got that much time

these days. I come unpolished, unrehearsed, on purpose.

If you're looking for more of a wine glass, you've come to the wrong place.

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last 10 years of my life but it's basically an announcement saying that we need to start creating a dialogue about the new man, about love, about healthy relationships, about humanizing ourselves.

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this dialogue.

I think I talk a lot about changing the temperature of the room because I was the guy who never made an effort to do that.

I would go into spaces and promote negativity, bring people down, take hostages.

I would drain people to energy.

So I think part of this stems from my upbringing, my dad, who is not drinking anymore, but he's an alcoholic, and he would always find a way to bring the temperature down, if that makes sense.

And what I mean by down is in a lower frequency, not a higher frequency.

So right, instead of uplifting people,

he would burden them emotionally, right?

And I think being used to that, or maybe part of that is me not having the awareness obviously, but also the tools or seeing how. the

the awareness obviously but also the tools or seeing how there's actually a responsibility in

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