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Parenting Great Kids with Dr. Meg Meeker

Episode 144: Encouragement for Children Who are Adopted and in Foster Care

Parenting Great Kids with Dr. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker

Kids & Family, Education, Parenting, Self-improvement

4.61.1K Ratings

🗓️ 28 September 2021

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Imagine not being given a name until you were two years old. Imagine living in constant fear of your father, whom you knew might literally kill you at any moment, for any reason. Imagine becoming a street kid at the tender age of four, after running away from your abusive home life. Imagine having to steal scraps of food, and no one knowing your name. How does one survive such a childhood? This is the extraordinary story of Peter Mutabazi, a surviving street kid who didn’t even think about the future beyond where his next meal would come from, yet eventually became an entrepreneur and the founder of Now I Am Known, a grassroots coalition focused on adoption and foster care. A single dad, Peter has fostered many children in his home through the years. He understands what it’s like to have no father in his life, to be abused, to have no food.. he knows what it means to be neglected. With this personal experience, it’s easy for Peter to relate to foster children, and to help them through their trauma. Listen in as Peter shares with Dr. Meg how he went from being a homeless street kid to a thriving entrepreneur and foster parent -- all because a caring stranger took notice of him, called him by name, fed him, gave him the chance to attend school, and ultimately changed the trajectory of his life. Peter refuses to allow bitterness to keep him from a bright future. He has been given much, and wants to give back much in return. In Peter’s own words, “I can not change the past, but I can change tomorrow.” His goal is to bring love and acceptance to foster children in the very same way that he himself received it. Every parent -- biological, foster or adoptive -- will benefit greatly from this powerful conversation by learning how to show their children that they are valued, seen, loved and known. WELCOME A CONVERSATION WITH DR MEG (PART 1) Dr. Meg welcomes guest Peter Mutabazi, a surviving street kid, foster dad, single father, entrepreneur, and founder of Now I Am Known, a grassroots coalition focused on adoption and foster care. BREAK A CONVERSATION WITH DR MEG (PART 2) Dr. Meg continues her conversation with guest Peter Mutabazi, a surviving street kid, foster dad, single father, entrepreneur, and founder of Now I Am Known, a grassroots coalition focused on adoption and foster care. IN CLOSING Dr. Meg ended the conversation by saying she would like to have Peter back on the show, and asked how listeners can connect with him to find out more about his initiative and the work that he is doing (website: www.nowiamknown.com; Facebook: Peter Mutabazi; Instagram: @fosterdadflipper). FROM THE PRODUCER Thanks for listening to Episode 144, NOW I AM KNOWN, and for helping Dr. Meg’s parenting revolution reach over SIX MILLION downloads! Subscribe, rate, and leave a review for us on iTunes! Get Social with Dr. Meg on Facebook, and Instagram @MegMeekerMD. Check out what’s new at meekerparenting.com, and while you are there subscribe to the Parenting Great Kids Community, where you’ll have access to all of Dr. Meg’s parenting courses, her Ask Dr. Meg video library, and new features we'll be rolling out soon. Also, in this community you’ll get a lot of support from parents just like you! Go to Meeker Parenting dot com for more information. Don’t forget to share the podcast with other parents, subscribe so you won’t miss anything, and give us a review so we know how we’re doing! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

For 30 plus years, I've seen every type of child grow up.

0:06.0

Instead of giving me what I wanted, she gave me what I needed, which was true.

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Don't let emotions win. Let truth win.

0:14.0

Do your very best and you should have a lot of fun while you do it.

0:16.0

And the better you get at something, the more fun you're going to have is something.

0:19.0

You, moms and dads are wired with everything you need to be a parent to a great kid.

0:26.0

Welcome to Parenting Great Kids.

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This is episode number 144 and I am your host, Dr. Meg Meeker.

0:34.0

My goal with every podcast is to help you be the parent you want to be.

0:39.0

I interviewed child and adolescent experts to help you understand your kids and why they do what they do.

0:47.0

I'll give you tools to grow them into great kids.

0:50.0

And if they're already great, the tools will help you grow them to be greater kids.

0:57.0

No topic is off limits. So if there's a subject you're dying to hear about, let me know.

1:02.0

Again, these podcasts are for you.

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At the end of each podcast, I'll give you three points to ponder, which are takeaways that you can start using right away.

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And remember, when you listen to the podcast, subscribe.

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Every episode contains the most up to date, professional help on a variety of issues.

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PGK podcast is on iTunes, Stitcher, and the Google Play Store.

1:29.0

Friends, I want to ask you a question.

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If you and I were having coffee and I looked over at you and asked you one question, do you feel guilty during the day?

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I'll bet you 99% of you, particularly your moms would say yes.

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And then you'd give me a list of the things that you feel guilty about.

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