Episode 129: Do You Have Silent Sex? Here’s Why That’s A Problem

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 November 2023

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Today we’re talking about something we’ve never heard talked about openly… silent sex.

Did you know that more than 50% of people regularly have sex where at least one partner is completely silent? This might not initially seem like a huge deal, but there are actually a number of drawbacks to having totally quiet sex.

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down for you why you’re having silent sex, the benefits of making some noise in the bedroom, and some simple steps to help you get more comfortable with it! You’ll also learn the surprising truth about which gender in a male/female relationship is the quiet one…

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0:00.0	I have never heard of weird noise during s-
0:04.2	I've never experienced you or any partner I've ever had
0:08.0	where I'm like, oh, that was weird.
0:10.8	You're lying.
0:12.1	No. I have for sure made weird noises during sex well yeah
0:17.3	but I'm never I'm never like never like oh God like I'm so turned off now like I'm having sex. I'm fucking turned on no matter what noise you're making. Hello and
0:35.0	Zandor Marin. I'm a sex therapist with
0:36.0	your host Vanessa and Zander Marin.
0:38.0	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience
0:41.0	and I'm just a regular dude.
0:43.1	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:45.3	while giving you step-by-step techniques
0:47.3	for improving yours.
0:48.8	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date
0:51.2	full of totally doable sex tips,
0:53.4	practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories
0:57.1	of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors
1:00.0	and so much more.
1:01.6	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:05.9	Thanks to Cozy Earth for continuing to support Pillow Talks.
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