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The Minds of Madness - True Crime Stories

Episode 120 - Part 1/2 - Alive But Still Not Free

The Minds of Madness - True Crime Stories

themindsofmadness

True Crime, Society & Culture, Documentary

4.56.7K Ratings

🗓️ 17 January 2022

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

To many residents in the town of Poughkeepsie, New York, Nicole Addimando and Christopher Grover appeared to be an ideal couple raising two young children.

So how did Chris wind up dead, and Nikki behind bars?

When the truth behind the shooting was finally revealed, the details would be more shocking, and more devastating, than anyone wanted to believe.

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HOW TO HELP NIKKI
1. SIGN THE PETITION Click Here
By signing the petition supporting Nikki’s clemency, you’re asking Governor Hochul to grant Nikki clemency to reunite her with her children who desperately need their mother. 
2. CONTRIBUTE TO FAMILY TRUST Click Here
Your donation will go directly to the Addimando Family Trust, which supports the current and future needs of Nikki and her children, now 9 and nearly 7.

To find out more go to:
We Stand With Nikki Website
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For Support:
National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or 1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
https://www.thehotline.org

Special Guests:
Dr. Gail Dines
Culture Reframed

Music Credit:
“You were the safety” by JOLENE
Produced by Aaron Krause
Mastered by Wil Reeves

Research & Writing:
Ryan Deininger

Sources:
https://gen.medium.com/nikki-had-proof-shed-been-abused-but-was-it-enough-for-self-defense-bd9f196396eb
https://www.courthousenews.com/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/domesticviolencesentence.pdf
https://law.justia.com/cases/new-york/other-courts/2020/2020-ny-slip-op-20048.html
https://westandwithnikki.com/
https://lawprofessors.typepad.com/evidenceprof/2021/11/on-september-28-2017-nikki-addimando-fatally-shot-her-boyfriend-christopher-grover-there-is-significant-evidence-that-chri.html
https://www.poughkeepsiejournal.com/story/news/local/2019/04/04/addimando-trial-no-evidence-abuse-forensic-psychologist-says/3362640002
https://www.poughkeepsiejournal.com/story/news/local/2019/04/04/addimando-trial-no-evidence-abuse-forensic-psychologist-says/3362640002/ 
https://ir.lawnet.fordham.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1550&context=ulj 
https://ypdcrime.com/penal.law/article35.php
https://www.newyorker.com/news/dispatch/when-can-a-woman-who-kills-her-abuser-claim-self-defense
https://lemonadamedia.com/show/believeher
https://www.poughkeepsiejournal.com
https://www.cbsnews.com/news/nicole-addimando-murder-case-chris-grover-48-hours

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the story of Nicola Armando.

0:02.8

Largely told in the words of her defense committee,

0:05.5

a group of women who have dedicated the past four years of their lives,

0:09.4

advocating on Nicky's behalf.

0:11.3

Many of the facts in this two-part series have been disputed by Putnam County's assistant DA,

0:17.1

as well as others.

0:18.4

But the story that follows is based on eyewitness accounts,

0:21.8

a mountain of documentation,

0:23.9

as well as testimony and other evidence,

0:26.3

recently determined to be reliable by the Supreme Court of New York Appellate Division.

0:31.6

This episode also includes descriptions of sexual violence.

0:36.2

The opinions expressed in the following episode

0:38.6

do not necessarily reflect those of the minds of Madness Podcast.

0:42.3

Listener discretion is advised.

1:12.3

In 2017, Nicola Armando and Christopher Grover,

1:28.1

were the ideal portrait of a millennial couple racing two young children.

1:32.8

At 30 years old, Chris was the head coach at Mr. Todd's gymnastics in Pekipsy, New York.

1:39.0

His reputation in the world of gymnastics was impeccable.

1:42.4

He was great with the students and their parents adored him.

1:45.6

But the children he always had the most time for were his own.

1:49.0

Four-year-old Ben and two-year-old Faye.

1:51.8

His partner, 28-year-old Nicci,

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