Episode 118: The Foreplay Episode: The 5 Things We’re All Getting Wrong

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 August 2023

⏱️ 60 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Links & Resources:

Guide: The Ultimate Foreplay Guides

Foreplay? More like the BEST way! Today we’re talking about the part of sex that never gets the credit it deserves - foreplay!

Foreplay is the number one way to get your partner to orgasm, and one of the best ways to create more intimacy, connection, and excitement. With all those benefits, why aren’t we doing it more often? 88% of men and 59% of women say they want more! But 67% of women feel like they’re “too needy” for wanting foreplay, 56% say they struggle to receive it, and 62% say foreplay feels boring or awkward. With numbers like that, we know you can relate!

In today’s episode, we lay out the 5 things we’re all getting wrong about foreplay, how to have more, and how to make it better than ever.

Thanks Dipsea. Get a 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/pillow.

Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode118

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	I personally think you could have the best technique in the world but if your partner
0:05.2	can tell you are not wanting to be doing that in that moment, it's not going to be a good
0:10.2	experience.
0:11.2	I don't care what technique you're using.
0:12.9	I think also you could have so-so technique, mediocre technique, but a really good attitude
0:20.8	and give your partner a phenomenal experience.
0:23.8	Oh, hell yeah.
0:30.0	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.
0:33.4	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:34.8	And Zander Marin.
0:36.1	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:39.1	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:40.7	We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for
0:44.9	improving yours.
0:46.4	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical
0:51.4	relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom
0:57.0	doors and so much more.
0:59.3	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:03.6	Thanks to Dipsy for supporting Pillotox.
1:05.9	Dipsy Stories is your passport to a world of sun-kissed adventures and unforgettable encounters
1:10.9	this summer.
1:11.9	Get an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipsyStories.com slash pillow.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Vanessa & Xander Marin, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Vanessa & Xander Marin and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.