Episode 11 - 10 Lessons from 10 Years of Marriage
Vlad Savchuk Podcast
Vladimir Savchuk
4.9 • 665 Ratings
🗓️ 21 August 2020
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
1. Without deliverance, marriage wouldn’t last. Freedom is the foundation of a good lasting relationship.
2. God called us to love, not change our spouse.
3. Learn to complain and not criticize your spouse. Complaining is sharing your feelings, criticizing is attacking the other person.
4. Learn the love language of your spouse. Speaking the love language of your spouse is like learning a foreign language.
5. Sex is superglue in a relationship, brings a couple closer. Devil will do his best to push singles into sex and pull married folks out of having sex with their partner.
6. It’s not about God first, marriage second and ministry third, put God first and marriage serving together in ministry.
7. Marriage is for dating. Go on dates weekly and vacations yearly.
8. Don’t try to be rich quick. Don’t compare and compete with other couples.
9. Spouse is a flower they don’t grow by being pulled but by being watered. Don’t be guilt-tripping, be stingy, demanding, controlling, and manipulating.
10. Be interdependent, some are too dependent and others are too independent of their spouse. Let your spouse grow as an individual without drifting apart. Marriage shouldn’t be a prison sentence.
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| 0:00.0 | So we want to share with you 10 lessons in 10 years of the marriage that we've discovered that |
| 0:06.3 | honestly helped and has blessed our marriage. And the first one is the lesson on deliverance. |
| 0:13.6 | You know, we knew about deliverance. I knew I taught on deliverance. We have deliverances in our church. |
| 0:18.7 | But honestly, I did not know how important deliverance is until we got married. |
| 0:23.5 | You know, a lot of times when guys move in into marriage, get into marriage, they have, and they need deliverance from pornography. |
| 0:29.1 | And if you walk into marriage and you have a problem with pornography, with drugs, with alcohol, my friend, that is going to cripple your marriage. |
| 0:38.9 | Or for women, what are some things that you're seeing that deliverance really gives a lasting |
| 0:44.0 | blessing to marriage? |
| 0:45.3 | So what happened in our case, I was struggling with spirit of rejection, loneliness, |
| 0:51.6 | and some of the things that have not been resolved in a past, and they |
| 0:56.1 | surfaced when we got married, and then some of the depression kicked in, and that really took |
| 1:03.4 | a toll for the first, like, I would say three, four years of our marriage, it really affected |
| 1:09.0 | the relationship, the marriage itself. |
| 1:11.5 | And yeah, before getting married, I wish I knew about deliverance, about breaking of generational |
| 1:18.8 | curses that affect, you know, relationships. |
| 1:22.3 | And that's what we had to go through. |
| 1:24.8 | And thank God that I received deliverance from those things personally |
| 1:28.8 | and our relationship, our marriage revived after that and my personal life as well. |
| 1:36.7 | If you are going through a very difficult time in marriage, I'm not saying that you need to blame |
| 1:41.0 | it on demons, but a lot of times we blame other people and |
| 1:46.3 | we fight the other person when we should be fighting the spiritual forces. And when we started to |
| 1:51.9 | encounter those problems in the first two years of our marriage, you know, my first reaction |
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