Episode 108: “Help! I’ve Been Faking Orgasms So Long I Don’t Know How To Stop!”

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 2.6K Ratings

🗓️ 15 June 2023

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Real talk - are you faking orgasms? There are so many understandable reasons why you may have started faking. Maybe you were trying to protect your partner’s ego, or trying to make it seem like there was good chemistry between the two of you. Maybe you were worried about taking too long to orgasm, or maybe you‘d never had one so you didn’t even know how you were supposed to get there with your partner. But what do you do if you’re now in the situation where you’ve been faking for so long that you don’t know how to get yourself out of the hole? We have good news and better news. First, you’re not broken and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you. And we have three options for how to stop faking and start having the orgasms that you deserve! Because life’s too short to fake your way through sex. Links & Resources: Guide: Ultimate Foreplay Guides (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/) Guide: Next Level Intercourse (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/next-level-intercourse/) Guide: Sexual Mastery Package (https://shop.vmtherapy.com/sexual-mastery-package/) If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had! Thanks Athletic Greens. Go to athleticgreens.com/pillow (http://athleticgreens.com/pillow) to get a FREE 1-year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase. Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode108. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	So I think most of us in long-term relationships,
0:02.0	like we can script out what sex looks like.
0:05.1	You know exactly the moves in exactly the order.
0:09.4	And we just like, yeah, kind of repeat things over and over again,
0:12.7	even though to be totally honest,
0:14.3	both of us are kind of bored by the routine.
0:16.8	So this gives you the ability to like shake things up,
0:19.9	try new things, explore new techniques with each other,
0:22.6	which is something every couple should be doing.
0:26.5	Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.
0:35.5	We're your host, Vanessa.
0:36.9	And Zander Marin.
0:38.2	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.
0:41.2	And I'm just a regular dude.
0:42.8	We share the ups and downs in our relationship
0:45.0	while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:48.5	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date
0:50.8	full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice,
0:54.9	hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on
0:58.2	behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
1:01.3	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
1:05.4	Thanks to Athletic Greens for supporting Pillotox.
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