You're listening to episode 75 of the baggage reclaim sessions.

I'm your host Natalie Lou, author of baggage reclaim.com, where I help people to offload the shady relationships and emotional baggage that block healthy self-esteem and loving relationships.

This week I explain what it means when we say that we're the common denominator and I talk about why it podcast called Melanin millennials and it was

for their relationship special and I had a blast.

And we got talking about

hashtag relationship goals.

Now for anybody who was not in the know about this whole hashtag thing, basically it's something

that's used on social media, particularly Twitter and Facebook and Instagram.

And it's a way of tagging photos or status updates

with a word or a phrase that, I guess, encapsulates the mood of the image or a particular message that you want to get across.

When I was on this podcast, Satia, one of the hosts was explaining about how basically she finds it really frustrating and annoying

when people post these pictures and put, you know, hashtag relationship goals or they talk about how somebody else's relationship is their relationship goal.

And this got me thinking about some of the themes that come up when I am talking to people about

relationships and some of the stories that they share with me.

And there's a few things that stand dead. So one of them is that years ago, and I mentioned this in the show where I guess did, the Sex and City movie came out, I'm assuming that most people have watched this by now, but at the end,

basically, despite the fact that Mr Bigg basically stood her up at the altar,

they get together at the end.

This is also following on from years of back and forth

and in being unavailable.

You would not believe the amount of emails

that I got back then.

Some people go and see, it's true.

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