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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Ep. 532: Favorite Words, a Simple Packing Hack, and Managing Obliger-Rebellion at Work

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Gretchen Rubin / The Onward Project

Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.713K Ratings

🗓️ 30 April 2025

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

We explore why making a list of your favorite words ("whimsy," "crackle," "latibulate") and using them can boost happiness. We share a simple hack that makes packing easier, and we reflect on a dog-related Secret of Adulthood. We also tackle a listener question about how to manage Obliger-rebellion when facing increased workload after coworker layoffs.

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0:00.0

Lemonada.

0:02.7

Hello and welcome to Happier, a podcast where we talk about strategies and solutions for making our lives happier, healthier, more productive, and more creative.

0:25.1

This week we'll talk about a word-related, try this at home, that is very fun, and we will tackle illicit or question about the challenge of obliger rebellion.

0:36.1

I'm Gretchen Ruhin, rhetoricitner Studies, happiness, good habits, secrets of

0:40.0

adulthood, human nature. I'm back in my home office in New York City. And not far from me is my

0:47.3

new puppy Taffy, who is Sound asleep. By the way, if you want to see photos of Taffy, follow me on

0:53.0

Instagram because I will be posting many, many photos and videos because that is my favorite thing to do right now is to take photos of Taffy.

1:01.5

And joining me today from Los Angeles is my sister, Elizabeth Kraft, and Elizabeth, you led the way for the two-dog family.

1:08.2

We had one dog growing up, but after you had two dogs, it suddenly seemed

1:11.8

possible. That's me, Elizabeth Kraft, a TV writer and producer living in L.A. And yes, Scratch, I have my

1:18.0

two corgis, Nacho and Daisy. And I hope that you're happy in a few months when Taffy settled in.

1:25.0

I hope you are glad that I led the way. Yes, I'm already sure that I will be.

1:29.7

Before we jump in, we got some interesting responses from listeners. Yes, C said, I love the

1:35.6

podcast and love reading, but I wonder if anyone has found that there can be too much of a good

1:40.3

thing with reading. I've caught myself sometimes reading instead of spending time with family,

1:45.6

and that is not who I want to be. Once on your show, you shared a motto you had in college of

1:51.3

people first or something like that to remind yourself to prioritize people over reading. I think this

1:57.7

was shared on an episode in which a teenager wanted to read in the library instead of hang out with friends.

2:03.6

Different approaches may work for different people, but the people first motto is a helpful reminder to me while reading.

2:09.8

25 minutes a day is no problem, but some of us can easily get sucked into way more, especially when enjoying escapist fiction when a lot of current reality can be

2:19.4

tough but necessary to face. Just a thought. I think this is such a good point. I am exactly like

2:25.6

that. There have been periods in my life where I really had to say, I need to put people first.

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