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Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Ep. 474: Watch Your Vent/Non-Vent Ratio, Why Rebels Dislike SMART Goals, and Top Habits for Happiness

Happier with Gretchen Rubin

Lemonada Media

Health & Fitness, Education, Self-improvement

4.7 • 13.2K Ratings

🗓️ 20 March 2024

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

We talk about why it’s helpful to pay attention to how much time we spend venting, versus not venting, to our family and friends. We also answer a listener’s question about why SMART goals don’t work for Rebels, and share listeners’ creative responses to the “Habits for Happiness” quiz. Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Follow on social media: @GretchenRubin on YouTube @GretchenRubin on TikTok @GretchenRubin on Instagram @GretchenRubin on Threads @LizCraft on Instagram @LizCraft on Threads @GretchenRubin on ThreadsGet the podcast show notes by email every week: happiercast.com/shownotes Get the resources and all links related to this episode here: http://happiercast.com/474 Get Gretchen Rubin’s newest New York Times bestselling book Life in Five Senses to see how she discovered a surprising path to a life of more energy, creativity, luck, and love: by tuning in to the five senses. Now available wherever books are sold. Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app.  To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

So it's David's first week. Welcome David. Actually to kick things off David, maybe you can let us know your thoughts on the productivity portfolio flips around the spending dilip.

0:10.0

Okay, sorry? Give us your initial POV on the productivity portfolio Moo-Moo-M make much more with a feather this morning?

0:17.5

Oh, that, yeah, the uh...

0:20.5

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0:23.0

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0:28.0

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0:32.0

Hello and welcome to Happier, a podcast where we talk about strategies, research,

0:37.0

hacks, and suggestions for making our lives happier, healthier, more productive and more creative.

0:42.0

This week we'll talk about why it's a good idea. healthier, more productive, and more creative.

0:42.6

This week we'll talk about why it's a good idea

0:45.3

to beware of our vent to non-vent ratio in conversation,

0:51.8

and we will answer a listener's question about why smart

0:55.2

goals don't work for everyone especially rebels. I'm Gretchen Rubin, a writer who studies happiness, good habits, the five senses, human

1:17.3

nature.

1:18.3

I am here in my little home office in New York City and joining me today is my sister Elizabeth Kraft to whom I often

1:26.2

vent.

1:27.2

That's me Elizabeth Kraft, a TV writer and producer living in LA and yeah Gretch you

1:31.5

took the words right out of my mouth.

1:33.2

Right. I'm an event you're often the person I'm venting to.

1:37.0

Yeah, what are sisters for?

1:38.8

We have a high vent to non vent ratio.

1:41.4

But before we jump in I want to remind everybody that my most recent book

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