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YouTube if that's what you're into. What a sales gal I am. Um, how are you? Most of us say

fine or good, but obviously it's not always fine, and sometimes it's not even that good.

This is a podcast that gives people the space to be honest about how they really feel.

It's a place to talk about life, the good, the bad, the awkward, the complicated.

I'm Nora McEnnerney, and this is thanks for asking. hypothetically speaking let's say we're a friend we love we don't let their partner in fact

what are we doing are we saying something are we letting you go i'm asking you because someone

asked me and i'm not sure I have great advice for this.

I got this question on my Instagram.

And it was that simple.

How do I tell my friend that I hate her partner?

I think a lot of us have been in a situation like this. Either we are the person whose partner is disliked by the people who love us, or we meet

somebody that our friend, our relative, someone we care about is really excited about.

And we think, um, really?

What?

What are you?

Tell me what you're seeing in this, because I am not seeing it,

and I know that love is weird, and I know that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but this is not

what I pictured, okay? It can be very, very awkward, complicated, uncomfortable, and all around horrible. We want the best

for the people we love. We want them to be happy. And if you are a codependent, if you are a meddler,

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