Ep. 26: Just Not That Into Me Or Unavailable?
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 4 March 2016
⏱️ 52 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Natalie questions whether we can really blame someone's inability to commit on whether they're just not that into us. Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl http://bit.ly/mrfbg In the second segment, where each week Natalie helps listeners to better understand their emotional baggage and grow in self-awareness, she explores our relationship with time, namely why some of us have a habit of being late and why some of us are so scared of it. Post on the blog about lateness: http://bit.ly/1fymR1H In the third segment, Natalie talks about the myth of 'overnight success' and why it's important not to discard other people's journeys. This week's listener needs some tips on sticking to her boundaries and values. 30-Day Project: Embrace Healthy Boundaries http://bit.ly/EmbraceBoundaries Natalie also shares advice from her 6 and 8-year-old daughters on being clear on NO. The book I mention is the wonderful, The Little Girl Who Lost Her No by Amy M. Starkey http://amzn.to/1L7xeIT
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| 0:00.0 | This week I talk about the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:03.2 | This week I talk about the baggage behind our habits with timekeeping. |
| 0:08.9 | Plus, I share my daughter's sage advice for ensuring that you're clear with no. |
| 0:15.1 | I'm Natalie Lou, a writer based in Southeast London who is dedicated to helping people to improve |
| 0:20.9 | their emotional and relationship literacy. |
| 0:23.2 | Let's kick this off. |
| 0:25.2 | A few days ago I had an event here in London called |
| 0:29.9 | You're not going crazy, they're unavailable, |
| 0:32.1 | plus nine other shake you up lessons. |
| 0:34.3 | Idea of doing this was really to share some insights that would help people to approach |
| 0:40.0 | dating and relationships in different ways so they don't get sucked into this rabbit |
| 0:44.2 | hole of blaming themselves for things that really are not their fault or engaging in |
| 0:49.3 | stuff that really is not going to take them in the direction of the type of |
| 0:52.1 | relationship that they say that they're looking for. |
| 0:54.0 | One of the attendees said to me that she had been in a relationship for a year with somebody that have recently broken up |
| 1:01.0 | and that what if it's not a case that he was a Mr. Unavailable, what if, you know, he's just not that into her? |
| 1:08.0 | And this is actually a really, really common question for me because there can be this concern that oh just like the |
| 1:16.1 | way sometimes we can be in a bit of a hurry to kind of write somebody off as a |
| 1:19.3 | narcissist we can sometimes be concerned that they're that we're just kind of going oh yeah |
| 1:24.3 | they're unavailable kind of like is an easy way to kind of write off what an issue |
| 1:28.7 | was in a relationship when actually that's not the case at all. What we have to recognize, and it is very, very possible for somebody not to be into us or us them. |
| 1:39.0 | That's very, very possible. |
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