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Happy Homebirth

Ep 257: From Questioning Yourself to Questioning the Birth System with McKenzie Ulmer

Happy Homebirth

Katelyn Fusco

Parenting, Kids & Family, Sexuality, Kids & Family:parenting, Health & Fitness

4.9578 Ratings

🗓️ 20 November 2023

⏱️ 100 minutes

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Summary

What does it look like to take charge of your birth experience after a previously disempowering one?   This week, we'll be speaking with McKenzie, a mother to two children and student from The Homebirth Collective--with two very different pregnancy and birth stories. We'll learn how McKenzie's first pregnancy and birth laid a groundwork for questioning herself, yet how that's absolutely not the end of her story-- and what she did to change her experience of pregnancy, birth and motherhood.   Episode Roundup   The way that we feel about ourselves and our experience in pregnancy is extremely related to our birth experience, our postpartum and our motherhood journey. McKenzie's pregnancy with her daughter Cora involved care providers who left her feeling uncertain about herself, her decisions, her ability to give birth and mother her baby.... all of this dynamic was already in play before she even headed to the hospital to have her baby. When the nurse asked, "do you want to try to push?" Her mind immediately began to question, "Well, should I? Surely someone should tell me..." This type of care is so common, and I truly believe that it leads so many mothers to question themselves on all kinds of matters when the truth is that YOU KNOW. You know your body and baby more than anyone else ever could. You are not a small piece of this puzzle... you ARE the puzzle. When McKenzie switched to homebirth and midwife-attended care with her second child, she began to truly embody this reality, which led to starkly different choices, feelings, and experiences. She shared how because of where she is mentally and in her heart, she's able to navigate through the challenges of motherhood with more grace, ease and fluidity than ever before. It's amazing to hear such an undeniable change.     This Week's Sponsors:Araza Beauty: Code HOMEBIRTH for 15% off Informed Pregnancy+   Join The Homebirth Collective Join Happy Homebirth Academy Code PODCAST for 10% off

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the nurse asking me if I felt like pushing.

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And of course, I couldn't feel anything.

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So I was like, I don't know.

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And she was like, well, do you want to try?

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Welcome to the Happy Homebirth Podcast, your source for positive natural childbirth stories

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and your community of support, education,

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and encouragement in all things home birth and motherhood.

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What does it look like to take charge of your birth experience after a previously disempowering one. Hey there,

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Happy Homebirthers and welcome to this week's episode of the Happy Home Birth Podcast. I'm your

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host, Caitlin Fusco, and today we'll be speaking with McKenzie, a mother to two children and

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student from the Home Birth Collective with two very different pregnancy and birth stories.

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We'll learn how McKinsey's first pregnancy and birth laid a groundwork for questioning herself,

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yet how that's absolutely not the end of her story, and what she did to change her experience

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of pregnancy, birth, and motherhood.

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Okay, let's jump in. Please remember that the opinions of my guest may not necessarily reflect my own and vice versa.

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And this show is not medical advice, it's an educational tool. So continue to take empowered

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responsibility for your health and your family.

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McKenzie, thank you so much for coming on the Happy Home Birth Podcast.

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I'm so excited to be here and to share my story with all these fellow homebirth junkies.

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I'm so excited to have you. It is always such a blast and an honor to get to reconnect with students,

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especially just having been able to kind of go alongside you in your pregnancy as you prepare

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and then to come back on the other side in here, like, okay, spill the tea. What actually

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