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Everyday Wellness with Cynthia Thurlow ™

Ep. 246 The Myth of Normal, Understanding Your Trauma, and How to Heal in a Toxic Culture with Dr. Gabor Maté

Everyday Wellness with Cynthia Thurlow ™

Cynthia Thurlow

Alternative Health, Nutrition, Science, Life Sciences, Health & Fitness

4.81K Ratings

🗓️ 24 December 2022

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Today I have the honor of connecting with the renowned speaker and bestselling author Dr. Gabor Maté! Dr. Maté is highly sought-after for his expertise on various topics, including addiction, trauma, stress, and childhood development. He recently wrote a New York Times bestselling book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture. For many of us, the concept of trauma is controversial and largely misunderstood. In today’s discussion with Dr. Maté, I am transparent, honest, and open about how I grew up and how my childhood experiences have influenced me throughout my lifetime. We get into the definition of trauma, why trauma is so widespread and misunderstood, the differences between habit and addiction, the impact of a toxic culture and materialism, and the epidemic of loneliness. We discuss the impact of the pandemic, a loss of control, why women are at greater risk of developing autoimmune disorders, and the impact of adverse childhood events. We also speak about what negatively impacts healthy childhood development, multigenerational trauma, and healing through compassionate inquiry. I hope you will find great value in listening to today’s thought-provoking and insightful podcast! IN THIS EPISODE YOU WILL LEARN: Dr. Maté discusses and defines trauma. The difference between a habit and an addiction. How do various addictions ( drugs, work, shopping, attention, etc.) differ? How the loneliness and isolation from childhood trauma get carried into adult life and could lead to illness. How the social isolation of the pandemic brought some families closer together and drove others further apart. How materialism ties into trauma, addiction, and the current epidemic of loneliness. How many of the problems clinicians deal with today result from trauma and disconnection What studies show about women and autoimmune diseases. Why do we need to acknowledge the impact of the disparity within our modern-day materialist culture? What can we do to ensure that our young children develop in a healthy way? Healing from multigenerational trauma. Connect with Cynthia Thurlow • Follow on Twitter, Instagram & LinkedIn • Check out Cynthia’s website Connect with Dr. Gabor Maté On his website On Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube Dr. Maté’s book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, and all his other books are available online and from most bookstores. Books mentioned: Hold Onto Your Kids by Dr. Gabor Maté and Gordon Neufeld Dr. Maté’s book, The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture, is available from most bookstores

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0:00.0

Welcome to Everyday Wellness Podcast. I'm your host, Nurse Practitioner Cynthia Thurlow.

0:07.0

This podcast is designed to educate, empower, and inspire you to achieve your health and wellness goals.

0:14.0

My goal and intent is to provide you with the best content and conversations from leaders in the

0:19.2

health and wellness industry each week and impact over a million lives.

0:23.4

Today I had the honor of connecting with a renowned speaker best-selling author Dr.

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Gabor Monte he's highly sought after for his expertise on a range of topics

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including addiction trauma stress and childhood. He has written a recent New York

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Times best-selling book called The Myth of Normal, and today I had the

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opportunity to connect with him. We talked about the definition of trauma, why it's so widespread and

0:55.3

misunderstood, differences between habit and addiction, the impact of a toxic culture and

1:01.6

materialism, as well as an epidemic of loneliness the impact of the

1:06.0

pandemic a loss of control why women are at greater risk for developing autoimmune disorders

1:11.6

and the impact of adverse childhood events.

1:14.8

What negatively impacts a healthy childhood and development,

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multi-generational trauma, and how we can heal through compassion inquiry and healing.

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Today is a particularly transparent honest and open discussion about how I grew up as an individual, how that has influenced me throughout my lifetime,

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and this is a particularly insightful podcast that I hope you will find great value in.

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Dr. Monte, it is such a pleasure to connect with you, your book and the work that you do is so transformational and very grateful for this opportunity to connect with you and share this with my audience.

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Thank you. It's such a pleasure to be with you and thanks for giving me the invitation.

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Absolutely. Can we start the conversation talking about what exactly trauma is because I know as myself as a trained medical professional my perception of trauma is very different than the way that you explain it and it makes such sense and I think for so many people that are listening

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trauma and the concept of trauma is so controversial and largely misunderstood.

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So the problem with the word trauma is that it's one of these words that everybody has got their own interpretation.

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