Ep. 24: The Debit and Credit Trust System
The Baggage Reclaim Sessions
Natalie Lue
4.9 • 867 Ratings
🗓️ 19 February 2016
⏱️ 48 minutes
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Summary
In this episode, Natalie offers up some suggestions for dating as a single parent, explores the difference between help and support, and explains The Debit and Credit Trust System. This week's listener wants to know how to cope with turning 30 when everyone else has gotten married etc, plus Natalie shares what she learned this week. In the first segment I mentioned Episode 1, you can find it on iTunes or listen here: https://bit.ly/BRSessions1 I also talk about: No Contact Rule book: https://bit.ly/NoContactRule Mr Unavailable and the Fallback Girl: https://bit.ly/MrUnavailable The Debit and Credit Trust System: https://bit.ly/BRTrust and http://bit.ly/BRCommit
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| 0:00.0 | is the baggage reclaim sessions. |
| 0:03.3 | This week I talk about what the difference is between help and support. |
| 0:08.0 | Plus, I explain the debit and credit trust system. |
| 0:12.2 | I'm Natalie Lou, a writer based in southeast London who is |
| 0:15.7 | dedicated to helping people to improve their emotional and relationship literacy. |
| 0:21.2 | Let's kick this off. Many baggage reclaim readers and listeners are navigating dating while also being a parent |
| 0:31.0 | and after lots of requests I've got several tips to share for single |
| 0:35.7 | parents who are dating. Keep in mind that parent or not, dating is a discovery phase. And when embarking on dating it's important to ensure |
| 0:45.5 | that we're dating for the right reasons as opposed to dating as a means of |
| 0:49.8 | avoiding us or an aspect of our lives. With this in mind, here are seven of my favorite tips for single parents who are dating. |
| 0:57.0 | Number one, are you ready to date? |
| 1:01.0 | Because readiness to date date whether we are a single parent or not has a great deal |
| 1:08.0 | of impact on who we choose to go out with and the type of stress that we're going to experience along the way. |
| 1:17.1 | Is there a lot of upheaval still going on? |
| 1:19.5 | Are you on the hunt for a replacement mother or father for your child? Are you afraid of being alone? Are you |
| 1:25.1 | trying to get back at your ex? Examine your reasons. There is never any harm in having an |
| 1:30.7 | honest conversation with yourself. If you're dating because you're over |
| 1:35.2 | your X, you're in a good place emotionally, your life isn't in chaos, and the dust is |
| 1:40.1 | set up for your child, go for it. If, however, this isn't the case, hold fire. I'm not |
| 1:47.1 | saying don't date ever again. I'm saying take a bit of time to address some of these outstanding areas so that you are better |
| 1:55.3 | placed to not only enjoy dating but if you are looking for a relationship so that |
| 2:00.3 | you can actually choose a partner from a healthy calm place. |
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