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If you really boil it down to the nitty gradients,

Karen, when is perfectionism a good thing?

Or when is havingism a good thing?

Or when is having standards a good thing?

And the answer is, you have to understand the difference

between having standards and beating yourself up.

When they start to work against you,

when you are

are creating judgment versus the goal,

you are in a place that is not only going to miss the goal,

but also going to create misery in the process.

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Hey everybody, it's jean Chatsky. Thank you so much for being with me today.

When was the last time you thought about your net worth? What about your self worth?

And did you ever consider that those two things might be related?

Today's guest has spent years coaching executives worldwide on the correlation between the two.

And when she and I first discussed this topic,

I was pretty surprised by some of her research,

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