I like to call it the silo effect. It's frustration, bitterness, and resentment. All those things

puts together end up creating silos that you and your husband live in, make money in,

raise kids in, and that's about it. This is episode 149. If you're tired of feeling like your husband is just another person to take care of,

you're going to want to tune in to this episode so that you can turn your soggy marriage around and make it a lean, mean, team tackling machine.

Systemize your life with Chelsea Joe.

That's me.

And this is a podcast for modern women who are eager to live with more meaning and less

overwhelm.

We're about to tap into some fiercely meaningful relationships, bang-in organization and

time management strategies, and a rock-solid plan for our

personal well-being with functional systems to those problems we all go through.

Girl, if you feel like you're watching life go by from a window on the Hot Mess Express,

then it's time to roll up your sleeves, dig in, and get your life out of the chaos

and into confidence. A lot of you are going to come to this episode, like, what is this about?

I had it put on my heart for a very

long time. Like, I could even say from back when I was like a very, very young girl, just watching my

parents, my parents never argued in front of us. Like, I don't really remember that ever.

I mean, my parents got frustrated with each other for sure, but I just saw my friends,

my parents being less like friends, even though they were friendly to each other, but more just

like people that were raising kids and having jobs. And I became really passionate early on

to make sure that I didn't raise kids that way because my dream was to just like grow up

and be in love, right? And for a lot of girls and probably for some men, that's pretty much the

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