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Ep 133: Stuck + Ambivalent: When You Can’t Make a Decision or Let Go

Help Me Be Me

Cloud10

Health & Fitness

4.81.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2020

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

One of the hardest things to do is give up or accept a loss, even if we are unhappy and have been for a really long time. This is for anyone stuck in ambivalence over a decision to create a change in their life. Sometimes this happens when you are in a long relationship and you feel you can’t leave it – even though you are not happy and you don’t feel in love. Another common scenario is when you are in a field you don’t love but you have been to school for x number of years so you feel like you can’t leave now. It’s so scary to trust the feelings you have when you know they can sometimes change – especially when weighing this against something that is valuable in the eyes of the world. The book I referenced by Dan Ariely is here: https://amzn.to/2DwW9bl This episode is brought to you by Better Help: online therapy with licensed counselors, available around the globe. If you want to help out this podcast, use our code and get 10% off your first month of therapy, visit TryBetterHelp.com/HelpMeBeMe Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Help Me Be Me. Hi friends it's Sarah May and this is a shorter episode about ambivalence and it's

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for when you are having trouble moving on or letting go and you're kind of at a place where things should be

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changing or you have a decision to make and you are in that state of paralysis where you

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