Ep 1121 | Jinger Duggar Vuolo on Escaping People Pleasing & Setting Biblical Boundaries

Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey

Blaze Podcast Network

News, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, News Commentary

4.6 • 19.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Today, we sit down with Jinger Duggar Vuolo, author of "People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations," to talk about her new book and how she put an end to her people-pleasing tendencies. We discuss how she broke out of legalism and learned the true gospel as she sought to glorify God with her life and how biblical modesty is the standard to which we should aspire. Jinger also tells us how her people-pleasing ultimately hurt her ability to be in community and gives other people pleasers advice on how to stop focusing so much on the selfish need to belong and how to let others into their lives. Buy Jinger's new book, "People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations": https://a.co/d/46kmsWm Subscribe now to watch "Relatable at Home: The Theology of Hospitality," use code ALLIE for a discount: https://www.blazetv.com/watch/channel/series/series/d36O0ZN2Y3SO-relatable-with-allie-stuckey/episode/ibm4P9uEjkrf-relatable-at-home--the-theology-of-hospitality?t=0 Buy Allie's new book, "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": https://a.co/d/4COtBxy --- Timecodes: (02:25) About "People Pleaser: Breaking Free from the Burden of Imaginary Expectations" (08:57) Teachings of Bill Gothard (13:44) People pleasing behavior (17:45) Biblical standards of modesty (22:16) Pleasing God vs. pleasing man (32:06) Trading down (40:44) People-pleasing is selfish (44:01) The heart behind hospitality (48:07) Advice for people-pleasers --- Today's Sponsors: Seven Weeks - Experience the best coffee while supporting the pro-life movement with Seven Weeks Coffee; use code ALLIE at https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com to save up to 25% and help save lives. Pre-Born — Will you help rescue babies' lives? Donate by calling #250 & say keyword 'BABY' or go to Preborn.com/ALLIE. Jase Medical — Go to Jase.com and enter code “ALLIE” at checkout for a discount on your order. CrowdHealth — get your first 3 months for just $99/month. Use promo code 'ALLIE' when you sign up at JoinCrowdHealth.com. --- Related Episodes: Ep 745 | Life as a Duggar & Letting Go of Legalism | Guest: Jinger Duggar Vuolo https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-745-life-as-a-duggar-letting-go-of-legalism/id1359249098?i=1000596623691 Ep 777 | On Duggar Theology, Josh’s Arrest, & Media Lies | Guests: Jinger Duggar Vuolo & Jeremy Vuolo https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-777-on-duggar-theology-joshs-arrest-media-lies-guests/id1359249098?i=1000606178083 --- Buy Allie's book, You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love: https://alliebethstuckey.com/book Relatable merchandise – use promo code 'ALLIE10' for a discount: https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Ginger Dugger Voilo grew up under legalism and because of that, she became a serial people
0:08.2	pleaser. But now she's out with an amazing new book called People Pleaser, Breaking Free from
0:13.6	the Burden of Imaginary Expectations. And today she is going to talk about how she has dealt
0:19.9	with this obsession, with perfection,
0:23.1	with what other people think about her, and how she has allowed biblical truth, the true gospel,
0:28.4	to help her break free from that and how we can do the same.
0:32.3	You're going to love this conversation.
0:34.4	It's brought to you by our friends at Good Ranchers.
0:35.9	Go to Good Ranchers.com.
0:37.3	Use Code Allie at checkout. That's good ranchers.com. Code Allie.
0:54.5	Yeah. So how are you feeling? Pregnancy wise. You know, Ginger, thanks so much for coming back on the show. Thanks for having me, Allie. This is super fun.
0:55.5	Yeah.
0:55.8	So how are you feeling?
0:56.9	Pregnancy wise?
0:57.7	You know, I'm feeling good.
0:59.5	I'm 24 weeks.
1:00.8	I'm past the nausea now and I'm kind of at that happy spot where I don't feel super huge.
1:06.9	Sweet spot. But I'm able to like have more energy and be able to get up and do projects around the house all the things that you need to get done
1:13.5	Yes before the baby comes so this is number three yeah sure everyone is so excited your girls are so pumped
1:20.3	They're stoked yeah especially Felicity my oldest she's just
1:24.0	Super excited because she's at the stage where she's just talking about helping with the baby and all of that.
1:30.8	So we're really, really looking forward to having another one.
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