and we're back and we're back and we're five pounds more or less.

I don't know where you're landing on that scale.

You'd have to actually step on a scale to know how much you weigh and not something I'm refusing to do until 2018.

Oh, so for those of you who are, y'all, I feel like we never introduced Mandy and Tiffany all in your eardrums giving you all this brown

delicious life about careers finance just life in this brown skin um my my thanksgiving was

pretty awesome it probably was the chillest that it's ever been so my husband obviously came to my

parents house um it was the first time that I could tell that he was like fully comfortable.

Oh, that's a big milestone. I know because like I usually like I don't leave him alone with my dad,

but my dad still has like super thick Nigerian accent just got here 40 years ago, you know?

And so he's always looking at me like, don't leave me, you know? But this time, like, what?

It was so chill.

I couldn't believe because, you know, you know how you know your booze.

So you can tell when their body language is like, I'm uncomfortable.

Yes.

But he was, he almost didn't want to leave because we had to go to his sister's house afterwards.

And he was like, oh, I wish we could stay. I'm like, wow, look at this. Went from stiff and sitting forward

to like letting your childhood mistakes slip out. He said something that I probably am not going to

mention. Let's just say my husband was, you know, one of them boys back in the day, back when he

was really young. And he like let it slip out i was like sir my dad looked at because my

sister was saying something about a guy that she works with and he was like oh i used to run the streets

with him back in the day now he didn't say run the streets you could just guess what he said yeah and my dad

like my dad like oh my dad called me later was like that that was when he was young, right?

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