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Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday

Ep. 101: How To Be Uncertain

Your Anxiety Toolkit - Anxiety & OCD Strategies for Everyday

Kimberley Quinlan, LMFT | Anxiety & OCD Specialist

Self-improvement, Education, Anxietymindfulnessmeditation, Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.9802 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2019

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

How To Be Uncertain In the Management of OCD

How To Be Uncertain OCD Anxiety Depression Mindfulness ERP Obsessive Compulsive Disorder Your Anxiety Toolkit Podcast Kimberley Quinlan

Welcome to this week's episode of Your Anxiety Toolkit. 

When it comes to the management of anxiety, practicing being uncertain is the key to long-term recovery. We must face our fears and purposely not try to solve what will happen and what we would do if our fear came true.   For anyone attempting this, we can all agree that being uncertain is a very difficult skill to practice.    I have found that while my clients logically are on board with the idea of being uncertain, they still struggle with HOW to be uncertain.  Cognitively, we know the importance of uncertainty, but the actual practice of it might not be something that we are fully on board for. 

Nearly every day, a client or a follower on social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter) will ask me HOW to be uncertain.  They might say, “Kimberley, I get that I have to lean into the uncertainty, but HOW do I actually be uncertain?”

In today’s podcast episode, we talk all about how to be uncertain and what major roadblocks might be causing you to bypass uncertainty.   We also talk about some key mindfulness tools to help with the practice of uncertainty when managing strong obsessions and compulsions.   This is a very important concept when it comes to anxiety management, so I would love to hear your thoughts.   

There are a few very exciting events coming up!

The IOCDF is hosting their 1 Million Steps 4 OCD Walk in Calabasas on Saturday, June 1, to increases awareness and raises funds for the IOCDF and its Local Affiliates so they can continue their mission. I will be walking at this one! Click HERE for more information and to register.

Also, the IOCDF Annual Conference will be held in Austin, Texas, from July 19-21.  I will be speaking at this event and love seeing you there!  Click HERE for more information and to buy tickets.

Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Your Anxiety Toolkit, episode number 101.

0:11.1

Welcome to Your Anxiety Toolkit. I'm your host, Kimberly Quinlan. This podcast is fueled by three

0:18.1

main goals. The first goal is to provide you with some extra tools to help

0:22.6

you manage your anxiety. Second goal, to inspire you. Anxiety doesn't get to decide how you live your

0:29.5

life. And number three, and I leave the best for last, is to provide you with one big, fat virtual

0:36.9

hug, because experiencing anxiety ain't easy.

0:40.3

If that sounds good to you, let's go.

0:47.9

Well, welcome back. I am so thrilled to be here with you again today.

1:00.5

And I'm actually really, really honored that you would choose to spend your valuable time with me.

1:02.0

Thank you so much.

1:04.0

I really, really, really mean that.

1:07.7

Well, it's the 101 episode.

1:09.6

This is pretty exciting. If any of you didn't get to hear and be with us for the

1:14.3

100th episode last week, please do go back and listen to it. We had so many incredible guests.

1:20.6

It was like a wonderful reunion of all of my favorite people, most of my favorite people,

1:27.0

and it was just so much fun. And I loved hearing

1:29.7

all of the amazing feedback from that. So, yay. This week, I'm actually just going to dive right

1:36.2

back into the work because that just seems to be how it goes. You have a big party, and then you're

1:41.7

like, all right, let's just go back to work. And what I'm noticing in my office and what I'm noticing a lot of the questions I'm getting

1:49.7

from you guys is about the idea and the practice of being uncertain. A lot of people are

2:00.0

understanding why they need to be uncertain. They're

2:04.2

conceptually getting it, but the actual practice of being uncertain is maybe not working for them

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