Entitled Coworkers Get Too Many Perks for Being Parents... So I Fabricate a Fake Family for Free Pto
Am I the Jerk?
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🗓️ 10 July 2024
⏱️ 23 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | My entitled Married Co- Workers always get all of the benefits simply because they have children, |
| 0:06.0 | which allows them to get off work early while also not affecting their PTO that they've accrued. |
| 0:11.5 | But after countless days of having to shoulder my co-worker's burdens, all because they had to take |
| 0:16.6 | care of their stupid kids, I decided that I had had enough, and I ended up lying to my company |
| 0:22.1 | that I worked for, claiming that I was a father and I had to take care of my child. |
| 0:27.0 | And I did this just so I could also enjoy the benefits of my coworkers who were also parents. |
| 0:32.0 | And with all things considered, I honestly don't regret this and I seriously should |
| 0:36.4 | have done this sooner. |
| 0:37.4 | Here's what happened. |
| 0:38.4 | Okay, to start things out, I'm a manager at a software and communications company and around two years ago I had to take a sabbatical because of stress and mental health issues. |
| 0:48.0 | Sometime later I returned to work and when I was asked what was new, I said I had recently became a father, which is a lie, but let me confess why I did it. |
| 0:58.0 | For a bit of context, at my company we all work from home, but several members of my team are parents of young kids. |
| 1:04.8 | While I do respect their choice not to let their career affect their personal lives, |
| 1:08.9 | I think sometimes the balance is tipped against those who don't have kids. |
| 1:13.1 | My colleagues take a considerable amount of time off each week because of family reasons, |
| 1:18.0 | and during that time, their workload is distributed among the rest of the team. |
| 1:22.5 | Several times I was stuck working on holidays |
| 1:25.4 | because my colleagues had family events. |
| 1:27.8 | Some of them have never worked on Christmas Day, |
| 1:30.3 | even though they fully know part of the team has to be on call because of how our industry works. |
| 1:36.0 | At one point it became accepted that people who have kids can just unload their burden onto their co-workers |
| 1:42.0 | just because their family comes first. their and our work life should be separate. If your contributions to the company are capped by your personal life, |
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