Hi welcome back to the personality hacker

podcast my name is Joel Mark Witt and I'm Antonio Dodge and today we're

going to talk about a subject I'm a little tentative about because I don't know if I really have a fully fleshed out

Like I don't know if I have the frame really rooted in my mind.

Before you get into that, let me just make a comment on that.

This is my sideline comment, then I'll be quiet.

These podcasts are not discussion-enders.

They're discussion starters.

So I love the idea sometimes when we talk and we don't... discussion enders, they're discussion starters.

So I love the idea sometimes when we talk

and we don't have all of the answers

because that's impossible, we can't have all the answers.

But I love the idea of seating a conversation

to the community, the personality hacker community.

So I'll just say that.

Yeah, well, and that's a good position

to come from because then it also frees us up

to not know everything, which, of course, I don't. So that's good. So that all said creating that bookend. I have a

Facebook friend who made this really interesting post about how he finds it baffling that men

spend so much time you know scoring women's attractiveness on a scale 1 to 10, studying pickup in order to hit on beautiful

women at bars and clubs and take them home, watching pornography, you know, like all these things that men do that are really focused on female beauty and feeling that they can rate them based on female beauty, and then they do nothing to improve their own

physical attractiveness like they don't work out they don't dress well they don't

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