Sometimes the pop culture we love just teens hits differently in retrospect.

Maybe it's a tabloid story we couldn't get enough of or an illicit student-teacher relationship

on our favorite show. We're Suzy Banna-Karim and Jessica Bennett,

posts of the new podcast in retrospect, where each week we'll revisit a cultural moment from

the past that shaped us and probably you to try to understand what it taught us about the world

and our place in it. You're the first person that I've talked to about this for years and years.

Listen to in retrospect on the iHeartRadio app Apple Podcasts or wherever you find your favorite

shows. Your career is your most valuable asset. Imagine powering it with the unvarnished advice

of the most successful chief executives in the world. I'm Mike Stybe, a three-time CEO,

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on my new show, Office Hours. I sit down with the leaders shaping our world to help you be the

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Hey fellow travelers, I'm Laurie Gottlieb. I'm the author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

and I write the dear therapist advice column for the Atlantic.

And I'm Guy Winch. I'm the author of Emotional First Aid and I write the dear guy advice

column for Ted. And this is dear therapist. Each week we invite you into a session

so you can learn more about yourself by hearing how we help other people come to understand

themselves better and make changes in their lives. So sit back and welcome to today's session.

This week a young woman tries to break her pattern of seeking out relationships with older,

unavailable men. Yeah, I was dependent on him because of my dad and his illness and

him dying. And so I came to rely on him and I told him how much I cared about him and how he

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