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Dating While Gray™

(Encore) Boomerang Love

Dating While Gray™

Laura Stassi

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.4650 Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2024

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Who hasn’t done a little digging to find a flame from our younger years? But, as Laura discovers, taking the next steps to reach out is when things can get complicated.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi everyone, Laura Stasi here.

0:09.1

This week, we've dug into the archives to bring you an encore episode of Dating While Gray.

0:14.7

Maybe you missed it the first time around.

0:17.0

Or maybe you're at a different place in your life and it will hit differently.

0:22.7

I know I always find hidden gems with every repeat listen. Please enjoy and get in touch with any questions or comments

0:28.6

about this episode or anything else that's on your mind about seeking, finding, and keeping

0:34.4

love in the later years of life. You know, I love hearing from you.

0:40.0

That's Laura at dating while gray.com.

0:43.2

Thanks in advance for reaching out, and this is Dating While Gray, the grown-up's guide to love, sex, and relationships.

1:04.0

Okay, who hasn't gone online to try to find a flame from our younger years. But taking the next step and

1:12.2

reaching out might get complicated. That's the topic of this episode, Boomerang Love.

1:22.0

I get so excited reading true stories about former loves who reconnect.

1:31.7

Like the high school sweethearts who broke up and then 33 years later, they run into each

1:36.7

other virtually on a website for alumni. He travels across the country to visit her and, boom,

1:42.5

they get back together. But not all reconnections have happy endings.

1:48.0

In fact, boomerang love can be tricky.

1:50.0

There's actually a whole body of research on this topic.

1:53.0

It was conducted by a psychology professor in California named Nancy Kalish.

1:58.0

In the early 1990s, Nancy reconnected with her college sweetheart. Sadly, it didn't work out,

2:03.7

but the experience prompted her to launch what she called the Lost Love Project. Nancy spent the

2:10.1

next quarter century, surveying people all over the world, writing books and research papers,

2:15.2

and establishing a website where people could join forums to talk about their experience making love connections.

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