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The Art Of Coaching

E370 | How to Hash It Out and Get Rid of Drama

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5 • 642 Ratings

🗓️ 24 March 2025

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

You feel it, right? That tension thick enough to slice, the elephant in the room no one dares mention. But sooner or later, it has to be dealt with. Most people think resolving conflict demands complex processes. In reality, the solution usually boils down to simply hashing it out. Yet, when friction arises, we often overcomplicate things or avoid them altogether, escalating drama. It's time to step up and initiate tough conversations. Brace yourself. Some people will resist. Some simply lack the emotional tools to process these interactions. Others you’ll never fully reconcile with, but we can NEVER afford to be escapists, personally or professionally. Even when doing the right thing doesn’t guarantee success, clear communication and accountability are essential. Today's episode hits like the perfect song for the moment. Right on time, and rhythm on point. This is the sit-down talk, crucial and overdue, that we, and our society as a whole, needs to hear. Tune in as Brett dives into these key insights, breaking down how they relate directly to his experiences, and yours: Navigate uncomfortable first steps with proven scripts. Anticipate resistance and pivot when faced with avoidance. Utilize mediation and lateral tactics when standard approaches stall. Detach from emotional reactions, document clearly, and protect yourself The BALM framework for clear and confident communication in the worst situations This episode was inspired by the powerful response to our latest newsletter. We dive even deeper into topics like culture change, navigating tough conversations, and handling drama effectively. Sign up today for free—no spam, just actionable, real-world value delivered straight to your inbox: artofcoaching.com/begin. Need a Coach Who Challenges You? Even the best leaders need a coach—but too often, they’re too busy to seek one out. That’s where we come in. Think of us as your shadow advisor—a real, human sounding board who challenges your thinking, offers a fresh perspective, and isn’t afraid to be your devil’s advocate. We help uncover blind spots and push you toward better decisions, whether you’re running a small business, leading a pro sports team, or making moves in a Fortune 500 company. If you’re serious about growth, let’s talk. artofcoaching.com/mentoring. Send Us Your Staff!  Tackle leadership challenges with tailored workshops trusted by Apple, NFL teams, and Canadian Special Forces. Gain actionable tools for managing emotions, de-escalating tension, and rebuilding culture. Email us at [email protected] to learn more, and visit artofcoaching.com to see how we can help. Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb X: @coach_brettb

Transcript

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0:00.0

Today's episode is brought to you by the Art of Coaching Apprenticeship.

0:14.6

Nobody gets out of bed, I ever really, and things I want to be a better communicator

0:18.7

today.

0:19.7

But people do get out of bed saying I would like less drama, I'd like to get more

0:23.7

done, I would like to waste less time.

0:25.9

And those things, by and large, are a byproduct

0:29.0

of how we communicate and how we resolve conflict.

0:31.7

And that is what the art of coaching and apprenticeship

0:34.2

is all about.

0:35.0

So whether you work for yourself,

0:36.2

you work for a larger organization, you coach you guide,

0:39.1

you lead you teach, you deal with people,

0:41.3

make sure to check out our art of coaching apprenticeship programs. It's called the apprenticeship simply because none of us

0:47.6

will ever master the art of dealing perfectly with people.

0:51.5

But we can sure as heck get better.

0:53.4

We have two coming up in Phoenix, Arizona.

0:55.6

You can go to artofcoaching.com slash events.

0:58.6

Now we're also gonna be in the Boston area

1:01.6

and several other areas around the country

1:04.0

and we also do this around the world.

1:06.3

Again, go to artofcoaching.com slash events or artofcoaching.com slash apprenticeship.

1:13.6

Now every coach needs a coach.

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