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The Art Of Coaching

E349 | Overcoming the "I've Tried Everything" Mindset

The Art Of Coaching

Brett Bartholomew

Health & Fitness, Business, Education

5 • 642 Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2024

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

“I’M DONE.” It’s one of the most frustrating feelings in the world.  You’ve tried everything to fix things but just can’t get through to someone. You keep hitting the wall over and over.  But what if there’s a way to revisit the problem, to approach it from a different angle, and open their minds (and ours) to new possibilities?  In this compact episode, Brett gets straight to the point of navigating these messy situations, helping you zoom out to see the situation for what it truly is, and recognize when it's time to look in the mirror—ultimately leading to a resolution when it feels like all hope is lost. Key subjects covered: Diagnosing the REAL issue: the most crucial first step to solving any problem How to see into your blindspots through someone else’s perspetive Two types of errors, their differences, and how to avoid both The “Triple A Approach” to ensure YOU aren’t the problem Understanding the role our ego plays in the root cause of our discontent One of our missions as a company is to be a beacon for people facing challenges like those we discussed in today’s episode—whether you want to become a better leader or navigate the scary realities of entrepreneurship. Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to fill that gap and provide you with a clear path to progress. Let us know how we can help. Reach out at [email protected]. The Apprenticeship - Join us for a live Leadership Training Workshop that will make you more socially agile. When we say “leadership training,” we’re not talking about clichĂ© trust exercises or bland motivational speeches. This workshop dives into the essential skills that people often wish they'd learned earlier—how to manage tough conversations, navigate power dynamics, negotiate effectively, and drive meaningful change. If you're tired of people-problems, want to grow as a leader, or aspire to step into a leadership role, this event is for you! Join us on March 22-23, 2025, in Livingston, NJ, and take your leadership abilities to the next level. Check out our full 2025 live event schedule to find the date and location that work best for you! New to our content? Start with the foundational text that inspired it all—grab a copy of Conscious Coaching today! If you’d like to purchase a signed copy, proceeds will go to supporting the Leukemia & Lymphoma Foundation and the Alzheimer’s Association. Your support of our small, family-run business means the world to us, and we’re incredibly grateful to have the chance to personally thank you for being part of our community! Related Episodes: E313 | How To Communicate With Someone Who Shuts Down or Stonewalls E343 | The Power of Indirect Influence: Strategies for Convincing Stubborn People Referenced Books: Team of Teams by Stanley McChrystal The Design of Everyday Things by Don Norman Extra Stuff: Explore our favorite books across business, leadership, psychology, and more—click here or visit artofcoaching.com/readinglist/ to get our FREE reading list. Visit our Amazon storefront for our favorite books, home office essentials, gym gear, grooming tools, and even coffee brewing essentials—all personally tested and trusted. Click here or visit amazon.com/shop/coach_brettb for all the goods. Follow Us: Website: ArtofCoaching.com Instagram: @coach_brettb Twitter: @coach_brettb

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0:00.0

Hey, art of coaching listeners, it's Brett. Listen, whether you're talking coaching, mentoring,

0:16.5

education, or any form of helping others, no true leader would ever turn down an opportunity

0:21.4

to become a better communicator, right? And surely they wouldn't turn down opportunities to learn from failure.

0:27.8

So why is it some only pay lip service to this?

0:31.6

And instead hide behind their technical skills,

0:34.4

topics that come easy to them,

0:36.0

or only engage with people that will give them feedback they want to hear.

0:39.6

We set out to solve this problem with our apprenticeship communication workshops.

0:43.7

They're back on and they're aimed at leaders

0:46.0

from every profession who are ready

0:47.8

for a new type of challenge.

0:49.6

So if you crave diverse feedback, deeper conversations,

0:53.0

and a high transfer ability to any work environment,

0:56.6

go to artofcoaching.com, Ford slash apprenticeship.

1:00.7

Again, artofcoaching.com, Ford slash apprenticeship.

1:04.8

One more time, artofcoaching.com forward slash apprenticeship. One more time, artofcoaching.com forward slash apprenticeship

1:08.0

to see when a workshop is coming near you or if you want to host.

1:12.0

Check it out, check it out. Welcome to the Art of Coaching Podcast. I'm Breb Artholamu and at a young age, poor communication

1:34.3

nearly caused me my life. Now, I help others navigate the great area of social interaction,

1:40.6

power dynamics, and communication so they can become more adaptable leaders, regardless of their profession, age, or situation.

1:48.3

This podcast is for everybody who is fascinated with solving people problems.

1:53.6

So if you're the no-nonsense type who appreciates frank conversations,

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