meta_pixel
Tapesearch Logo
Log in
Walk-Ins Welcome with Bridget Phetasy

E290. Why the Victim Mindset is Seductive

Walk-Ins Welcome with Bridget Phetasy

Conversations with people from all walks of life.

Society & Culture, Comedy Interviews, Comedy, News, News Commentary

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 20 June 2024

⏱️ 80 minutes

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

Andrew Boryga sits down with Bridget to discuss his book Victim, a satire about a hustler from the Bronx who sees through the veneer of diversity initiatives and decides to cash in on the weaponization of identity politics. They talk about his journey as a writer, how the book changed over the 10 years it took to write, the evolution of the novel's main character, the idea of people playing on their victim status for personal gain and sympathy, and his motivations for tackling themes of victimhood, diversity, and resilience. They cover his experience writing at the New York Times, being asked to write a certain type of story about his trauma and oppression over and over again, why he'd rather talk about the class differences than racial differences, parenting in a tech-driven world, managing work-life balance, and what becoming a dad changed about the way he approached his writing.

Sponsor Links:

The Campaign Managers - https://bit.ly/WiW-TCM

PlutoTV - https://bit.ly/WiWPlutoTV

Check your media bias. Read the news from multiple perspectives. See through media bias with reliable news from local and international sources with Ground News - https://check.ground.news/Phetasy

Bridget Phetasy admires grit and authenticity. On Walk-Ins Welcome, she talks about the beautiful failures and frightening successes of her own life and the lives of her guests. She doesn’t conduct interviews—she has conversations. Conversations with real people about the real struggle and will remind you that we can laugh in pain and cry in joy but there’s no greater mistake than hiding from it all. By embracing it all, and celebrating it with the stories she’ll bring listeners, she believes that our lowest moments can be the building blocks for our eventual fulfillment.



This is a public episode. If you’d like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.phetasy.com/subscribe

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0

All right. I'm with Andrew Berega everybody. Welcome to Walkends Welcome. Thank you for coming through to talk to me

0:06.9

Thank you for having me. I'm excited to talk to you about your book victim

0:12.3

I really first of all, want to hear a little bit about your background

0:16.4

and how you decided to write, you know, came to decide to write a book. Did you always want to be an

0:22.1

author?

0:23.3

Yeah, well I want to be a writer pretty young.

0:26.2

I knew that when I was about 16.

0:28.0

I focused on journalism at first,

0:30.0

and mostly because that was like the path that I saw available.

0:35.7

I didn't really imagine what a being novelist was

0:38.9

or what that would look like.

0:40.1

But when I went to college and I started doing creative writing classes, then I fell in love with fiction and it was around that time when I was like, I want to write a book.

0:47.0

Where did you go to college?

0:49.0

Cornell.

0:50.0

Okay. And you grew up in the Bronx, correct? I grew up in the Bronx, yeah.

0:55.0

You're kind of living my dream. I feel like as I was I was just in New York City and I feel and every I was born there actually.

1:02.0

Oh yeah, where?

1:04.0

Where in here?

1:05.0

Like upper west, but it was, I was only there for like the first two and a half years

1:08.0

of my life and then they had my brother and they were like,

1:10.0

we're out of here.

1:11.0

And it was like 1980, so it wasn't you know I mean I think it's a little

...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Conversations with people from all walks of life., and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Conversations with people from all walks of life. and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.

Copyright © Tapesearch 2025.