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Sober Powered: The Neuroscience of Being Sober

E280: Romanticizing Alcohol: What’s Going on in Your Brain

Sober Powered: The Neuroscience of Being Sober

Gillian Tietz, MS, CPRC

Science, Self-improvement, Education, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 16 May 2025

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

Are these harmless thoughts or do they lead to relapse? In this episode you’ll learn what is going on in your brain when you romanticize alcohol, how this can make being sober more challenging, and 3 ways to break the romanticizing loop. I’ll share a story from 4 years ago about when I romanticized alcohol, how I used tools, and what that same situation would look like today. What to listen to next: E269: Autopilot mode E273: How the sober brain breaks down alcohol associations Work with me: Community & Meetings: Living a Sober Powered Life https://www.soberpowered.com/membership Sober coaching https://www.soberpowered.com/sober-coaching  Weekly email: You’ll hear from me on Fridays https://www.soberpowered.com/email Free resources https://www.soberpowered.com/free Courses: The non-negotiable mindset https://www.soberpowered.com/mindset-course Anger Management  https://www.soberpowered.com/anger Support the show: If you enjoyed this episode please consider buying me a coffee to support all the research and effort that goes into this podcast https://www.buymeacoffee.com/soberpowered Thank you for supporting this show by supporting my sponsors https://www.soberpowered.com/sponsors Sources are posted on my website Disclaimer: all of the information described in this podcast is my interpretation of the research combined with my opinion. This is not medical advice.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Are these harmless thoughts or do they lead to relapse?

0:04.0

In this episode, you'll learn what's going on in your brain when you romanticize alcohol,

0:09.0

how this can make being sober more challenging, and three ways to break the romanticizing loop.

0:16.0

I'll share a story from four years ago about when I romanticized alcohol, how I used tools in that moment,

0:23.3

and what the same situation would look like for me today so that you can have a clear picture

0:28.1

of how things evolve over time. And before we dig in, I'd like to take a moment to thank my

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