E194: What Your Partner Wishes You’d Stop Doing In The Bedroom Part 2

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.8 • 2.2K Ratings

🗓️ 6 February 2025

⏱️ 70 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever wondered if there’s something you do in the bedroom that your partner secretly (or not-so-secretly) wishes you’d stop doing? Well, you’re not alone. A while back, we asked our audience this very question, and the responses came flooding in. So many, in fact, that we had to bring this topic back for Part 2! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the most common complaints from partners about what they wish their significant other would stop doing in the bedroom. We’re covering everything from awkward communication habits to frustrating foreplay, plus some surprising grievances about kissing, initiation, and even what happens after the fun is over. And don’t worry—this isn’t just about calling out the bad. We’re also giving you practical tips on how to improve your sex life by doing more of what your partner actually loves. What We’re Covering in This Episode: 💬 Communication blunders 💋 Kissing complaints 🔥 Initiation mistakes 💨 Foreplay fumbles 🍑 Intercourse issues ❌ Anal annoyances 💦 Finishing & aftercare faux pas This episode is all about getting real and helping you and your partner have a more satisfying, connected, and frustration-free sex life. 🎧 Listen now and find out if you’re guilty of any of these common mistakes! Links & Resources: Ready to stop settling for ‘good enough’? ➡︎ http://vmtherapy.com/ultimatesex/?ref=podcast-194&utm_term=podcast-194 Reignite your love life in just 7 days? ➡︎ https://shop.vmtherapy.com/your-best-week-ever/?ref=podcast-194&utm_term=podcast-194 Treat Your Partner to the Best F0replay they've ever had: https://shop.vmtherapy.com/foreplay-guides-2022/?ref=podcast-194&utm_term=podcast-194 Check out our NYT best selling book Sex Talks: ➡︎ https://sextalksbook.com/?ref=podcast-194&utm_term=podcast-194 Connect with us! 👋 Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/vanessaandxander Our VIP Email list: ➡︎ https://vmtherapy.com/subscribe Thanks Remi. Head to shopremi.com/PILLOW and use code PILLOW to save up to 50%. Thanks Naturesage. Head to NatureSageOmega3.com/PILLOW to get 40% off. Thanks Chewy. Head to Chewy.com/PILLOWS and save $20 on your first order with free shipping. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:00.0	All right, what is it, what is it that I've been doing that you hate?
0:03.0	No.
0:04.0	Let's go.
0:04.8	Let's go.
0:05.0	I don't have anything for you.
0:05.9	I'm ready.
0:07.2	I've been psyching myself up all week for this episode.
0:10.7	Hit me.
0:15.1	Hello and welcome to the Pillow Talks podcast.
0:20.6	We're your host, Vanessa, and Zander Marin.
0:23.3	I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. And I'm just a regular dude. We share the
0:28.4	ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.
0:33.6	Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more.
0:46.3	It's the sex education you wish you'd had.
0:50.4	Babe, we're switching it up today.
0:52.4	Oh, yeah?
0:52.9	Yeah, we're doing something different. What are we doing? We're sitting in our... I thought you had some, like, surprise answer for me. Actually, there are two things that are different today. Okay. But you go first. Tell us what's the first one. I think I know what both of them are. Well, I know the first one is for sure because I was about to say it. Okay. Which is that we are not in bed. We're not. We're not in bed. We are sitting in our office, in our chairs that we originally got for podcasting. And then we didn't use very much because we discovered the bed. But we're not in bed today because
1:28.0	my back is hurting a little bit and sitting in bed in the position that we sit in isn't great
1:34.1	on my back. So here we are in the chairs. Instead, and we got a bunch of cameras on us and maybe
1:41.6	you'll even be seeing this like whole thing on YouTube.
1:44.5	I'm not even sure.
1:45.9	But maybe.
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