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How many of us when we hear something very good?

We're quick to tell everyone when we hear something bad

We're quick to tell everyone not realizing

Some people might destroy your goodness because you told them and some people might

Celebrate at the loss or the fear you have and they might cause greater harm against you because you told them

You did not know how to process the news that you got

So if you want comfort you can avoid the crisis by not telling everyone everything

You need to be slightly secretive about certain things number one number two is you need to know if you are going to say to

Someone whom you are going to say to you need to choose very carefully those who can process who can give you advice

Those who are genuine if something really grand is going to come in your direction

You're happy about a big business deal if you were to go and relate that to everyone they might snatch the business deal away from you

So if they were genuine they will give you guidance

Similarly if you have a fear and you were to tell people if they're not so sincere

They might seize the opportunity to make you even more fearful

So Allah says in verse number

82 and 83

Of this particular Surah Surah Tun Nisa

And if they are willing to be afraid of the mother or the mother of the son

Or if they are willing to be afraid of the mother of the son

The people who are willing to be afraid of the mother of the son

Verse number 83 Allah says when they get news of security safety the good news or that of fear that bad news

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