DOD190: Anatomy of a Not Cash Money Experience
Dear Old Dads
Thomas Smith
4.8 • 550 Ratings
🗓️ 12 March 2025
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Content Note: This episode includes discussion of sexual assault and issues of consent in intimate experiences.
Thomas's friend recently had a "not cash money" experience with a date, and the dads discuss consent when someone changes their mind over the course of the evening, the societal failure to support vulnerability when reflecting on your own missteps in those "gray" situations, and whether or not it's tough to evaluate enthusiasm with a potential intimate partner.
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| 0:00.0 | I'm the cool dad. That's, that's my thing. |
| 0:09.7 | I know now what I can offer you that no one else can. Complete and undependent. |
| 0:16.7 | I'm a man. I'm sensitive. I need to feel loved. I need to be desired. |
| 0:23.1 | Yelling is the only part of being a father that I enjoy. |
| 0:28.7 | Welcome to Dear Old Dads, the podcast that's checked all the boxes for your box. |
| 0:34.0 | I'm Tom Curry. I'm joined as always by Thomas Smith and Eli Bosnick. Hello, |
| 0:39.0 | hello. Big announcement, guys. Big announcement. Oh, all right. As folks are hearing this, |
| 0:47.9 | I will have had my balls chopped off by a doctor, whatever it was that you might do. What? |
| 0:53.0 | Your neutering is, what day is your neutering? |
| 0:55.6 | It's tomorrow. Oh. The big day. I guess I'm doing it. I guess I'm, I guess some, I guess some |
| 1:01.8 | well, I'll believe it when you've got frozen vegetables on your nuts, man. I was just about to |
| 1:06.7 | invite Tom over to the corner to have a bet about whether... I have that all the time has nothing to do with... |
| 1:11.2 | Your chances of actually getting your vasectomy in my mind have moved from 0% to 9%. |
| 1:17.5 | Yeah. |
| 1:18.0 | That's it. |
| 1:18.2 | Well, how... |
| 1:19.0 | Okay. |
| 1:19.2 | So how do I have an appointment for tomorrow you ask? |
| 1:21.8 | Well, I'll tell you. |
| 1:22.6 | Phoebe made it for it. |
| 1:23.3 | I did. |
| 1:23.7 | I did. |
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