Do You Worry He's "Not Sure" About You? Do This...
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
4.7 • 3.1K Ratings
🗓️ 3 October 2020
⏱️ 8 minutes
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Summary
I’m a big believer these days in the power of no.
What we decide to say “no” to in relationships is often as important what we say yes to.
And I’ve seen thousands of women saying yes to all the wrong things, like men who say “I’m not sure about us,” for whom they wait months and years in the self-torturing hope he’ll change his mind. I even had a woman recently say to me, “He says he’s trying to choose between me and another woman.
Should I wait for an answer? Or should I move on?” Seriously? Wait for an answer?
Screw that.
It’s time to say no to being undervalued forever. One of my favourite quotes says: “If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured the world will not raise your price.”
So if you’re still hanging on that “one guy,” I need, need, need you to hear this. It may just be the biggest wake-up call you’ll ever get...
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| 0:00.0 | Hello there everyone, it is Stephen Hussey here, your host as per usual and I want to ask you today |
| 0:06.7 | if you have ever felt the exquisite pain of being with someone who is on the fence. |
| 0:13.0 | Someone who is not sure what they want. Someone who is not sure how they feel about you and |
| 0:21.2 | every day you spend in this situation, it roads your self-esteem, it makes you feel less attractive, |
| 0:27.5 | it makes you feel like there is something you are missing and if only you could do that, |
| 0:32.6 | if only you could make the right move, say the right words, have the exact right look, that person |
| 0:38.2 | really desires, maybe they will come around or maybe they just need time and eventually they will |
| 0:45.8 | see the light and in all that while maybe you are still being intimate with this person, maybe |
| 0:51.3 | you are still having sex with them, maybe you are just still in a romantic scenario with them, |
| 0:55.6 | you are spending time as a friend with them and you are in that place where they are saying, |
| 1:01.8 | I am not really sure and it is a very powerless place to be and you just don't know whether you should |
| 1:11.8 | cash in your chips and walk away from the table or whether you should keep rolling the dice |
| 1:17.2 | and essentially you are constantly oscillating between feeling hopeful and then feeling stupid |
| 1:25.3 | that you have your hopes up. So if you have been in this place, this talk from Matt is going to be |
| 1:31.1 | the ultimate pep talk if you are dealing with someone right now who is not sure what they want. |
| 1:37.9 | After this, if you really want to get serious about taking your own self-esteem to a new level, |
| 1:45.8 | about transforming your inner confidence so that you never get in these scenarios again, |
| 1:50.8 | so that you feel completely empowered in these moments to walk away to do what is best for you, |
| 1:57.0 | to be able to pick people who are giving you that mutual affection, we have coming up a virtual |
| 2:05.8 | retreat and it is coming up in October. We have never done this before but we are doing it for |
| 2:11.7 | everyone who obviously can't travel for all the obvious reasons this year and obviously our team |
| 2:18.5 | can't do our usual live retreat in Florida. So we are really going all out on doing a full scale |
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