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Do You Have the Ick or Do You Have Avoidant Attachment? “The adult who is avoidant; is the child who couldn't express their emotions”

For You From Eve

For You From Eve

Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Personal Journals

4.6662 Ratings

🗓️ 21 March 2025

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Hello! Welcome, or welcome back to For You From Eve; your safe space for all girl talk! In this show we talk all about becoming the best version of yourself in the most realistic way possible.


Do You Have the Ick or Do You Have Avoidant Attachment? “The adult who is avoidant; is the child who couldn't express their emotions” Let's talk about the “ick” - the “ick” is when you have trouble fully opening up and letting yourself in with a guy. Why? because he does something “icky” or we can call it - something you don't like.


In today's episode, I break down why we get the ick, what does "avoidant attachment" mean? Why do I feel this way? How do I stop? There are so many different aspects to being avoidant to your feelings, and today I talk all about how you can heal from this, and get into a healthy relationship; despite what you have been through in past heartbreak.


Loved how this episode came out! Thank you for all your constant love and support on my show - I truly appreciate each and every one of you!


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0:00.0

Hello everybody. Welcome or welcome back to my channel. In case you are new here, my name is

0:14.8

Olivia Eve. I am the host of For You from Eve. And if you've never clicked onto my show before,

0:20.1

hello, I'm so happy that you

0:21.4

have joined us today, whether you're watching on YouTube or you're listening on Spotify,

0:26.4

Apple, whatever it is. I normally don't do video podcasts, trying to get back into it, kind of just

0:31.7

try to test it out for you guys, see how it looks, how it sounds, how you guys respond to it.

0:37.3

And I've been doing a lot of YouTube vlogging recently, so I figured this would also be a good direction to go in. So I'm very excited to chat with you guys today. I've been getting into that YouTube game, being in the social media game. And I'm excited to just talk to you guys about the stuff we're going to be talking about today. I know exactly why you clicked onto this episode.

0:55.2

We're going to be talking about the ick avoidant attachment style. What does it mean to be avoided? I have my notes in front of me here. So if you're watching the YouTube version, you're like, why does she keep looking at her computer or in front of her? It's because I have my computer in front of me. and I always like to plan on my episodes and just

1:11.5

jot down a few things that I want to bring up in the topic of today's episode. So I always like to look and just make sure I don't miss any points and I explain everything super clearly. But in case you are new here and you haven't listened to my show before, you don't know what to expect. We talk all things, self-love, self-growth, self-improvement. My podcast is basically just a safe space of being on FaceTime with your best friend or with your older sister. That's why I started this show. I wanted you guys to be able to get advice from somebody from a safe space and just, you know, we talk about things going on in our life here. We talk about the big things, the little things.

1:45.1

And we also just kind of talk about girl talk, just good girl talk, whether you're having a boy issue or a self-esteem issue or a problem with work or a problem with school.

1:53.6

I do a little series also called Girl Talk and diving into the DMs where I basically will do a very short little segment or kind of a shorter episode and I'll go through all of your DMs where I basically will do a very short little segment or kind of a shorter

2:02.7

episode and I'll go through all of your DMs or I'll ask you guys on my

2:06.2

Instagram to answer question polls so if you're ever interested in having me

2:10.2

answer your advice and having us talk about it I think that would be really great

2:13.8

the weather has been getting so much nicer in the New Jersey New York area so I've I've been really happy about that. We have the sun coming in. I don't have to put on studio light for this video. I'm just using the pure sunlight and it's not even facing from the window directly. So if the lighting isn't great, I'll obviously when I watch it over, edit it, but I did get a brand new camera. So I'm hoping that the editing isn't too bad I have been extremely

2:36.0

busy recently if you guys don't know what I do besides the podcast I also am a freelance social

2:41.8

media worker so I manage a ton of social media clients and then I also will do my own social media

2:48.6

and I actually just signed with creator society which is so exciting so I will be working with them for my social media and I actually just signed with Creator Society which is so

2:51.6

exciting so I will be working with them for my social media I just brought on a YouTube

2:55.8

editor so I've been posting vlogs and then I've been doing my own social media thing

2:59.6

I'm always looking for some social media help so if you are in college and you are

3:04.2

looking for some more experience in the social media space my DMs are always open i have gotten a few people reach out to me to help with social media and i will never kind of i'll try my best to not decline somebody it's not that i wanted to decline you just i might not have a role to fill at the time but i'm always looking for some extra help for anyone who wants some experience and to put some things on their resume i always want to help out because I know when I was in college, I always just wanted to do things for the experience. But without further ado, I don't want to yap, yap, yap. I want to get into this episode. But before we get into this episode, I want to talk about something a little controversial. I guess we can call it controversial. I'm not very controversial. I don't get into beef. I don't, you know, none of that stuff. I'm really not a part of that. I feel like it's just because my community is not in that space, but also I'm not like relevant to enough to me in that space. I don't know if relevance is the right word. But I know that there's been this whole controversy recently about New York City influencers being completely dragged to the ground and obviously I know I'm not

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