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Practical Stoicism

Do You Have Friends? Real Ones?

Practical Stoicism

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Philosophy, Society & Culture

4.8662 Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2023

⏱️ 10 minutes

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So go and add yourself to our numbers if you are so inclined. Today we're covering letter three

1:29.5

from Seneca's letters to Lusilius, and that letter reads as follows. You have sent a letter to me

1:36.8

through the hand of a friend of yours, as you call him, and in your very next sentence you warn me not

1:43.2

to discuss with him all the matters that

1:45.5

concern you, saying that even you yourself are not accustomed to do this. In other words,

1:52.0

you have in the same letter affirmed and denied that he is your friend. Now, if you use this

1:58.0

word of ours in the popular sense and called him a friend in the same way in which we speak of all candidates for election as honorable gentlemen, and as we greet all men whom we meet casually, if their names slip us for the moment, with the salutation, my dear sir, so be it.

2:16.6

But if you consider any man a friend whom you do not

2:19.6

trust as you trust yourself, you are mightily mistaken, and you do not sufficiently understand

2:26.4

what true friendship means. Indeed, I would have you discuss everything with a friend, but first of all,

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