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Today what I'm going to be talking about is something kind of interesting. It's about going back and reliving your memories.

I've had a few conversations with a few different coaching clients, some of my one-on-one coaching clients in the past few weeks.

I had one conversation specifically and I got the permission from her to talk about this. I won't tell you her name but I got permission to at least tell you about this story.

One thing that is very, very important for us is to go back and relive memories that we had when we were children.

Because here's the thing, a lot of times we don't realize that we're still carrying emotional residue with us from something that happened early in our childhood.

Maybe it was our parents said something or our brother or sister said something or we got into a fight and lost and everybody got to see it or somebody broke up with us or maybe it was just one event, one little tiny thing that happened when you were a kid.

But it actually made a huge, huge difference in your life the way it is today.

And you won't ever 100% get past it unless you go back and relive it through the eyes that you have now, your mature eyes.

And so I'll give you a couple of examples and the main example I'll give you is this. I have a coaching client and she was talking about how in my group coaching I have a few video lessons on the psychology of money.

How to fix, how to make more money, how to attract more, how to save more, how to budget, but more than anything else, just the psychology of money because you will not make money if your psychology of with money is screwed up.

That's the important thing to learn. And the reason why I have I think five or six videos just on the psychology of coaching in my group coaching, I'm sorry, the psychology of money in my group coaching is because it is this important.

And in one of the videos I talk about, you know, your very first paycheck and how you're very first paycheck, you know, it's amazing for most people and it's it just you feel so grown up finally to be able to get your first paycheck on your own.

And it's usually a positive memory. And so she brings it up and says actually with my first quote unquote paycheck, my first real relationship with making money, what actually happened was it was a very terrible thing.

It happened was when I was a kid, I was about six or seven years old, it was I went and picked blueberries with my father for a long felt like forever we went and picked some sorry blackberries we plaque goodness, I need to slow down a little bit.

I'm getting into this story because I know how it ends. So so what happens is she she goes and picks blackberries with her father, they pick five, you know, the big five gallon bucket, they pick the entire five gallon bucket.

She they got this entire bucket. It felt like it took forever. And then she she went and her father sold that five gallon bucket just a little bit later to a neighbor down the street. And she remembers being so pissed off about the fact that he sold the bucket where they just worked so hard for it.

And how could he go and he could sell the entire bucket that they just work so hard for right. And so her real first relationship with making money was a negative one because she was mad that he only got $5 for it.

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