The virtue. Maybe it's the first little red flag. Maybe you're starting to date somebody

and something happens and you're like, is that a big enough deal for me to break up with

this person or not even continue to see him? Or should I continue to date them, right?

So you guys email us and just ask us, ditch or date. Now this one occurred two years ago

and she's wondering, do I give this guy another chance or not? So if you want to get in on

this ditch or date, then hit us up at 1-855 Burnt Show. Hey, Burnt Show, long time listener,

love you guys so much. Your values and open table policy is amazing. And I love starting

my day with you. Thank you for adding a podcast option. Well, thank you. Love you back.

She says, fan girl ran over. Well, it was nice wallet. Two years ago, my boyfriend

of a year and a half broke up with me, sort of out of the blue. Weeks before he finally

broke up with me, there were some weirdness with another girl and he felt distant and

uninterested. When I asked him about the girl and how he was behaving, he said she was just

a friend and that he was struggling mentally. 100% untrue. He ended up dumping me for her.

He was struggling mentally and it was something I was giving him grace about and helping

him with while we're together. The breakup devastated me. I have never met someone

that I truly thought we could actually make this work and figure out that our relationship

would progress into marriage. I struggled for a super long time trying to find out where

it all went wrong. Around Christmas this year, he reached out and he apologized for the

way he treated me and how I didn't deserve any of it because I was always so good to him

and supportive blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. That's what she writes. We had

a quick texting chat. Didn't speak again until two days ago, Sunday. It liked something

on my brother's page that I said. So I sent him a text and all capital letters. What

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